Before you can start making the girl feel good, elicit and interpret her values,
reflect them back to her, experience states of pleasure and hornyness etc, you have to
know how to interpret her specific signs of feeling either good, bad or neutral. You can
of course guess that a smile or "doggy-dinner-bowl-look" are good and a yawn and
a frown of boredom are bad, but the signs are not always that clear. So in order for you
to be able to acquire more accurate data on how the girl is reacting to each theme you
bring up, question you ask or direction you go with the conversation, you shall first have
to calibrate her for her reactions. Jake Thomson, ASF: "Find out, by asking, what she looks like when she agree's with
something. Find out, by asking, what she looks like when she disagrees with something.
Find out, by asking, what she looks like when she's nuetral about something. Make a game out of it. Tell her you're practicing to be a 'psychic' and you want her to
help you. Ask her to think of something she whole heartedly, enthusiastically, and
strongly agrees with. It's irrelevant if she tells you what it is, matter of fact, it's
better if she keeps it to herself. Then ask her to think of something she feels nuetral
about. Observe what she does. Repeat this cycle two more times. Then have her think of
something she wholeheartedly, enthusiastically, and strongly disagrees with. Go to
neutral, and repeat two more times. Next, ask her to think about anything she wants, and you, based on your careful
observation, will tell her if she agrees, doesn't care, or disagrees with. Play that game
for a while, then drop it, and move on to something else for a while." According to Jake Thomson, you should use this to progress to doing a cold-reading of
her palm (that is without any knowledge of palmistry) or analyze her handwriting etc by
feeding her something and either deepening it if she shows signs of agreement with it or
moving on to something else is she is showing signs of disagreement. But the principles of
calibration described are applicable on a far larger scale than just as prep-work for a
gimmick. NYC, ASF: "I would always wonder why guys would ask "how do you know when
she..." because in general, I ALWAYS KNOW! The reason I know is I basically give them
a "lie detector" test before sarging them. What I mean is that I deliberately,
yet naturally in the course of conversation say things that I KNOW will push them in a
direction. I notice how they are normally... then when they mention their pet cat or something, I
might say "did your cat ever get hurt?" and watch her face change and her body
change when she considers her cat getting hurt. Then I might say "Does your cat wake
you up in the morning?" and watch her change to that too. Not those sentences or
topics in particular, but since I don't talk BULLSHIT FLUFF with chicks, I get them going
in all directions before sarging... unless it's just time for caveman kino:) Anyway... by the time I am ready to move on them, I KNOW how they react to good stuff
and bad stuff. When I QUOTE to a chick about getting a blowjob from some other chick in
the past, she might THINK she is not reacting to what I said, but she is going through the
same changes as thinking about her cat when she considers her mouth around my dick. She is
either going to have the "happy" reactions or the "sad" reactions or
the "I don't give a FUCK about what he just said" reactions. I always know when
I am moving physically closer to a girl if she WANTS me to do it, is LETTING me do it, or
HATES me doing it... before she even speaks. When I move toward her, she has to consider
what I am coming over there to do, and it is OBVIOUS to me how she FEELS about it without
her saying what she feels about it. This makes me look like a fucking CHAMPION because I
seem to "sense" what she's feeling without her telling me. "We are so in
tune blah blah blah...". I think this idea is PARAMOUNT! If you can't judge what the chick is feeling...
basically that is... pro, con or neutral... you are way behind in the game." | ![](../../../images/gfx/design/blank.gif) |