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Pattern I (by John Casewest) "Has anyone ever told you that you have the most interesting eyes? They have a quality about them that says "there's more to this person than you
might think at first glance". (This works GREAT on women that are VERY beautiful and hear it all. You might also want
to open with something like "Any idiot can look at you and tell you that you are
beautiful but it takes a ________ and a ________ (list your good qualities) man to see,
that [then go into your pattern]. This is a TOTAL break state!) Have you ever met someone with that look in there that just said "underneath this
person's gotta be someone exciting and riveting" and you just have to get to know
this person (sp) better. Or maybe it was like you could look so deep into their eyes
and they just fascinated you (ambiguity) because you couldn't quite place it but they just
looked somehow so familiar. With me I have to *follow that feeling* when there's
someone right in front of me with eyes like that. (Next piece could be used in any cold walk up, both to challenge them and get them
comfortable) Most people are a little too scared to just approach someone they feel the urge to
meet, and I know it can take courage to meet someone just because you want to see if
they’re the kind of person you might really want to spend time with, but I know
I’m (flattered, respect or a trance word) when someone has the initiative and
(chuckle tonality) good sense to go out of her way to get to know me!" Pattern II (by John Casewest) Has anyone ever told you that you have the most interesting eyes? You know I know a few people with eyes like yours and I’ve found people with eyes
like that tend to be exciting and riveting people, like that glow isn’t just right
there but in their whole personality as well… It’s like as if when you look into someone’s eyes, you can just see the whole
way into them, and *feel so comfortable. With me*, it’s even more exciting
(count the commands there) though, the different things people can say with their eyes -
eyes can also show deep understanding, and whether you’re paying close attention to
something or what’s going on deep inside you. It’s amazing the things people’s eyes can tell, it’s like as if you can
see a sense of humor right there in someone, or when the eyes are mysterious or
sometimes just really intriguing, that just make you want to find out more of what’s
going on behind them. Aren’t eyes just most fascinating..." | 
