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Ross Jeffries: You: "Can you remember the last time you had a peak experience? Like
climbing a mountain... or watching a beautiful sunset... or the first time you looked at
someone (point to yourself, self-pointing, sp) and recognised YOU REALLY LOVE THIS PERSON
(sp)." Her: "Sure..." You: "What was that like?" Here you should shut up and let her describe it. Listen carefully as she will give away
lots of trance words. You: "That's really interesting. You know, I find it so neat how YOUR MINE
can be going along in one direction, you know in an everyday ordinary state, and then
SUDDENLY for whatever MYSTERIOUS reason, you just GO INTO A MUCH DIFFERENT STATE... a
state where YOUR MINE is so in touch with the MYSTERY and the WONDER and the beauty of
life (point to yourself, dumbshit!). And sometimes it's like in YOUR MINE, you just SLOW
TIME DOWN, and the whole world stops, as you just LET YOURSELF GO WITH THIS (point to
yourself). Can you FEEL THAT (reach out and touch anchor) is an incredible thing to
experience… WITH ME… NOW, I know that for a lot of people different things can
trigger that." Her: "God... yeah... I LOVE the way you talk... it's like your inside my
soul." You: "Well, thank you (whatever-your-name-was). And you know, for a lot of
people falling in love, or an orgasm are peak experiences, but for me, it's music. Like,
the other night I was listening to Mozart, and I don't know if you are familiar with him
or not ("Moe who?" - at least that's what Arnold Schwartzenegger responded with
in Last Action Hero:), but some of his stuff is just a series of short little musical
segments... like little pecks on the cheek, and with some of his stuff those segments just
GET LAID (whatever-your-name-was), from end to end, and keep getting repeated. But his
really great stuff is composed of these long, slow, lingering movements... they're like
long, slow, lingering kisses... long slow lingering caresses, and you just FEEL ALL OF
THAT ALL OVER YOUR BODY when you LISTEN... TO ME… NOW... it's an incredible thing...
you know." Ross Jeffries: "This induces a pretty damn loosened up, altered state and
you've already dropped in a few good sexual metaphors too. What's CRITICAL is you speak
slowly, and make sure you anchor when you are getting the responses. Also...make sure your
gestures match what you are talking about. Don't make short, choppy gestures if you are
talking about long, slow, lingering, movements or you'll be dating your hand! Where could
you go from here? Well, pretty much anywhere. You could transition to gathering info about
her values by saying something like, "So... if you could just imagine your ideal,
peak relationship... what are some of the things that would be important to you to be
there?" Or you could move on to the blow job pattern or incredible connection or
whatever." As for Moe (sorry, Mozart:) - hey, these are just examples, insert something that has
deep personal meaning for you and describe that instead. |  |
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