A woman's curiosity is a wonderful tool. You can use it anyway you like, but here is an
example of an excellent use if it. What you do, is you let her know, that you've just
thought of a wonderful nick-name for her. Leave a message on her answering-machine or send
her an e-mail. Her intrigue and curiosity towards you will skyrocket and for example if
she hasn't been returning your calls or e-mails for a week, you can expect a call or a
mail in half an hour, I'm serious:) This is also a wonderful way to kick-start a new
relationship. Then of course, when she contacts you, don't tell her the nickname (and by
god, don't tell her you were only tricking her:), let her beg for it, let her fry in her
own curiosity. And whatever you do, don't give away the nickname over the phone or through
an e-mail, say it is too personal for that, get her to meet:) Now its your call, when
exactly you're going to tell her the nickname, but don't do it a minute too soon because
(now don't be surprised!:) she might be willing to make out with you and even end up in
bed with you just to find out her nickname:) During all this, it helps, if you actually
really do have a nickname for her:) And if it is sweet, endearing and romantic - all the
better:) So when you finally do give it to her, you might find her infinitely grateful to
you:) Here's an example of an initial e-mail on this subject (ASF): "For whatever reason, as I was walking outside this evening, I thought of the most
wonderful nickname for you. Like have you ever been thinking about someone, and it's like
you almost feel their spirit gently whisper inside your mind, and you talk to them even
though they may be miles away. Some people look up at the moon and realise that the one
that can share their deepest thoughts can see the same moonlight that evening, drifting
down through the clouds. Anyway, I hope you, like me are having a great day.
[your phone number here] If she doesn't call you, she ain't human. NEXT! If you really can't think of a nick-name on your own, you can use this advice by
Anubis, ASF: "Find a personality facet that shines (or which she thinks shines) and put aside
an analogous word that describes it. Then search for something about her appearance that
glows with rarity (or which she spends a lot of time trying to make glow) and put aside an
analogous word to describe that. You now have two romantic/endearing/sexy analogues which, when put together, perform
the wondrous neologic magic of a nickname! Of course, if the magic goes a little sour, you'll have cooked up a nickname which even
you can't stomach. In that case, throw it in the bin and start again. It actually gets
very easy once you've done that a few times." | |