To capitalise when doing a pick-up would be to * and #close with a girl. To capitalise
with a girl that you’ve already # or *closed would be to do a follow-up of calling her and
then either by patterning or using any other seduction technique helping her to realise
what you both have really wanted all along:) And then doing it of course:) Apart from your usual pick-ups though, you might have gotten a girl interested in you
in the midst of your everyday chores – maybe a co-worker, a neighbour, a fellow student, a
girl at the cashier. To capitalise would mean NOT TO LET THAT WINDOW OF OPPORTUNITY CLOSE!
She is already preconditioned to liking you, so why let such a perfect opportunity slip? I
assume of course, that you find her quite amiable as well:) As for how to detect such an opportunity – you should know the signs of interest (see
Reading body language» for more details). She initiates contact, calls, emails or starts a
conversation with you, smiles, asks questions etc, or reacts to your initiations more
happily than before or more happily than your average indifferent girl would, giggles with
her girlfriends when you pass her by, draws hearts in her college-block while sitting
beside you (now you’re not chasing high-school girls are you?:). See “Reading body
language»” for more signs. But she won’t stay interested forever. Any day (or night:) a new prospect might catch
her attention and even without the threat of competition, her interest for you could wear
off any moment, no matter what the reason. Even if not really having seduced her
purposefully, if you detect her interest (and most probably she is doing her best to let
you know:) and she is also quite to your liking, do end her suffering and extend a helping
hand:) Make sure that is not a supplicating AFC-ish hand though – that is one of the main
reasons of the “I was interested in him/her only until he/she developed an interest
for me, then it became boring” phenomenon. Stay on top of matters. A girl that has
developed an interest in you independently in the course of a few months is no different
from a girl that you just met and helped realise that you are the man of her dreams ten
minutes from meeting her – they both need guidance or else they might get lost. But you need to begin right away – don’t wait for some non-existent “right
time” to approach her or ask her out (hopefully you’re past any such thinking
though:) or for her to make the first move (she WON’T, and if you don’t make the first
move she will eventually dismiss you as an ignorant chump or think you’re not interested
and in either case – she’ll move on). Believe me, if you already noticed the signs of
interest, SHE IS interested! And don’t even try to dismiss them as random friendliness or
your imagination, if you noticed them, they’re for real:) Now once you know she is
interested – capitalise on it! See also:
Reading body language | 
