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“How To Make A Woman Feel Attracted To You Pt. 2” – August 26, 2001
As you’ve probably noticed in my past newsletters, I really like the idea of doing things to make a woman feel naturally attracted to you on a gut level.
Before I talk more about the topic, let me remind you that I believe:
1) Attraction isn’t a choice.
2) The things that make people feel attracted to each other don’t usually ‘make sense.’
3) If you know how, you can make a woman feel more attracted to you at every contact.
This week, I want to talk about one of my favorite ways to make women feel this “gut level” attraction.
Since this is another idea that doesn’t “make sense” to most people, I’m going to ask you to put your judgement aside, and just try it.
Try what I’m about to teach you in a few different situations, and see how it works before you make up your mind about it… you just might find that this is the key that opens all doors for you.
One of my rules of thumb for dealing with women is:
“NEVER GIVE A WOMAN EXACTLY WHAT SHE WANTS.”
I’ve mentioned in the past that I love to study people and their behavior, and I’ve found something that really kind of startled me…
When people get what they want, they often stop wanting it. Now, do I mean that if you get a new car, that as soon as you get it, you don’t want it anymore?
No, not quite. What I mean is, when you get a new car, you’ll probably start looking at and wanting a NICER one.
I personally think that this is a mechanism that nature has given to us humans to keep us moving and to motivate us to do and achieve more in life.
I’ve taken this idea, and adapted it to dealing with women and dating. My idea is that if you never give a woman exactly what she wants, she’ll stay very interested, and become even more attracted to you.
Before I continue, let me mention that I’m not saying “Don’t give a woman what she wants.” I’m saying not to give women EXACTLY what they want.
For instance, if a woman says “Pick me up at 7” you can say “I’ll pick you up at 7:30.”
If a woman wants you to buy her some flowers, don’t buy them right then, but surprise her sometime when YOU feel like it.
If a woman wants a kiss, say “What am I going to get in return? …Hmmm… no, I’m going to think about it…”
The key is to stay cool and calm, and just decide to do something a little different than what she wants. Make sure you don’t come off like a cold a**hole that is just trying to be argumentative. Don’t ever get emotional when you’re using this idea!
You’re just doing things a little bit more your way… and in the process being very unpredictable and interesting.
Are you with me?
Here’s the interesting part: If you go and ask ten of your female friends about this idea, they’re going to say “That wouldn’t work on me.”
But if you try this with a woman that you’re dating, you’ll find something completely different.
We humans are attracted to things that frustrate us a little bit. And when we come across another person that seems interested, but doesn’t give us exactly what we want, we start thinking about it all the time. It almost becomes a challenge to see if we can get the other person who’s resisting us to give in.
Now, most guys will try this, and have the woman say “Ohhh, please… cummon… let me have it…” and then they give in.
DON’T DO IT!
Keep up the challenges, and you’ll keep up the interest and ATTRACTION. If you start giving in, she’ll start to lose the interest and attraction.
How do I know that this works?
Because this week I’ve had three different women who I haven’t seen or talked to in over 6 months all call or email to see what I’m doing and if I want to get together sometime soon.
What do they all have in common? You guessed it… I used my ATTRACTION attitude and ideas with all of them.
If you’d like to learn more advanced ideas on how to make women feel attracted to you, the best place to start is my eBook “Double Your Dating.” Just go to:
…and download your copy now. It’s the best investment you will ever make in your dating life.
Talk to you next week.
Your friend,
David DeAngelo
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