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How to Be a Multiorgasmic Man, Part I
by Dr. Alex Benzer
of Tao of Dating
April 22nd, 2008
Here's a little story for you. I'm in my second year of medical school, and I'm browsing at the local Borders bookstore.
I'm going through the section on sex and relationships when I come across this book with a rather bold title on it: 'The Multiorgasmic Man.'
Instantly, all of my 'bullshit' alarms go off. What the heck! I ain't buying none of that stuff. Guys can't DO that kinda thing. They even talked about it in physiology class.
But then, out of the back of my mind came a fuzzy memory of my college roommate who had this book called 'The Tao of Sex' on his shelf. At the time, I thought that was uber-kinky. So of course I had to borrow it from him and flip through it.
It talked about the importance of retaining semen, and doing this with your breathing, and pressing certain 'buttons' on your body. Sure, man. Whatever.
But then there was an interview in 'Maxim' magazine (back when it used to be cool) with Sylvester Stallone, who was a folk hero for me at the time. In the article, he talked about semen retention and orgasm without ejaculation. To this day, I remember him explaining how to send the vital hormones up through the body instead of spilling them out and squandering them.
So now, as I'm standing in front of this intriguingly titled book, I've already been exposed to the idea twice before. And I'm more curious than I am skeptical.
Long story short: I bought the book and did what it said. Lo and behold, it worked.
If you're the go-getter type, you don't need this article or any of my courses. You will simply go get 'The Multiorgasmic Man' by Mantak Chia (hence the term 'go-getter'), apply its lessons, and be off to the races.
In the meantime, I'm going to tell you exactly how to become a multiorgasmic man in the next couple of email lessons.
Just in case it's not patently obvious to you why becoming a multiorgasmic man is A Good Thing, here are some reasons I've come up with:
1) It's more fun this way.
You guys can understand this: one orgasm = fun. Multiple orgasms = more fun. I've also noticed that guys are more into the IDEA of sex than they are into sex itself.
It's more like 'Look at me, I scored!' As opposed to the women, who are too busy having screaming orgasms to keep score. Don't you ever wonder how much fun the other team must be having? Well, you won't have to wonder any more.
2) You will access new states of consciousness normally requiring illegal substances.
Ever felt like you were blasted into infinity? As it turns out, that roller-coaster ride is free. Sign up right here.
3) You will feel energized after sex, not depleted.
No more roll-over sleepy-sleepy for you, sir. When you do this practice right, you'll feel like moving mountains after nookie. No guff.
4) You will derive long-term health benefits.
That's what the Taoist masters say. They've been around for 2500 years, so I'm willing to believe them.
With that out of the way, let's get down to business.
There are three phases to your multi-orgasmic training: muscle control, sensation control, and energetic control. Today we're going to talk about the first phase, namely muscle control.
The muscle in question is the pubococcygeus (PC) muscle, which is a sling between the pubic bone and the tailbone (coccyx). Slang for this sling is "the 'taint", 'cause it ain't one and it ain't the other (use your imagination).
This is the muscle you use to stop the flow of urine. Most people don't use the muscle too often, which is why you want to strengthen it.
So what I want you to do right now (preferably not in public) is to reach down and feel that muscle down there. Now pretend that you're stopping the flow of urine. Aha! Congratulations. You've now made friends with your PC muscle.
Now you get to work it out. I recommend using two kinds of exercises: holds and flutters.
Holds are maximal contractions lasting 5 seconds or more. Flutters are quick contractions about a second long. Holds build strength; flutters build control.
For the first week of your training, you should do 3 sets of 10 holds, holding each contraction for 5 seconds. Breath in when you contract; breathe out when you release.
Supplement those with 3 sets of 20 flutters. Again, breathe in when you contract; breathe out when you release.
Over the subsequent weeks, you build up the routine:
Week 2: 3 sets of 10 holds for 10 seconds; 5 sets of 20 flutters
Week 3: 5 sets of 10 holds for 10 seconds; 5 sets of 30 flutters
Week 4: 4 sets of 20 holds for 10 seconds; 5 sets of 40 flutters
You can do these exercises while you're waiting in line, while you're stopped at a red light -- basically turn any down time into up time.
Stay tuned for parts 2 and 3 of your training in the next couple of days.
The power is within you,
Dr Alex
PS: Can you think of two friends who would also find this article useful? Then feel free to do them a favor and forward the article to them.
PPS: I'm interested in your questions and comments regarding dating, persuasion and
networking, so please do send them to me. I can be reached at dra***x@th***.com[ ? ]
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