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How to Be a Multiorgasmic Man, Part III
by Dr. Alex Benzer
of Tao of Dating
May 3rd, 2008
Last time we talked about the second element necessary for becoming a multiorgasmic man -- namely, sensation control.
When I first sent this article out, I got in trouble with some providers because I was using 'profanity' in my article. Y'know, nasty words like 'ejaculation' and 'semen'.
Well, that's part of the problem, isn't it. These completely normal aspects of human functioning -- which, incidentally, are responsible for the existence of every one of us on Earth -- have been cloaked in taboo, fear and mystery for far too long.
No one taught you about this stuff in school. Your parents didn't tell you about it.
Most people don't pick up books about sexuality. And yet, somehow we're all supposed to be good at it?
Not bloody likely.
And remember: the more comfortable you are discussing sexuality, the more you put at ease the women in your life about this topic. It's a pretty darn important topic, so get used to talking and seeking information about it like any other aspect of health and well-being.
Moving right along. The third component of your multiorgasmic training, after muscle control and sensation control, is energy control.
The idea is that when you're sexually aroused, you're building up hot energy in your groin area. And when you have too much of a buildup, you'll end up blowing your load, which is what we're trying to avoid here.
Now as someone who was trained as a physicist in college, I was always skeptical about terms like 'energy' thrown around in a spiritual way.
But you know what? Nobody, even the world-class physicists, have a satisfactory definition of what energy is. Energy simply -- is. And if you feel a tingling up your arm, up your spine, or in your groin, then you're feeling some kind of energy. And that's good enough for me.
What the Taoist masters tell us to do is to imagine the spine as a sipping straw that you can use to pull up that hot energy gathering in your groin.
You breathe in, and simultaneously imagine that you're pulling up the energy from the groin, up your spine, all the way up to your head.
You can also use the PC muscle as a pump to send the energy up the spine and into the head.
If you do this right, you will start to feel heat and tingliness build up in your head. That's a good sign.
Now what can happen is that you can have TOO much energy sent up to the head. That's when you touch your tongue to the front of the palate.
When you do that, you close this circuit called 'the microcosmic orbit' which allows the free flow of that energy -- chi -- down the front side of your energy channels and into the belly, where it can be stored safely.
And then, you can keep on doing what you were doing before: bring the energy up, circulate it in the head, and bring it down to the belly.
When you keep on doing this for three, six, nine, eighteen cycles, you start to enter into states of consciousness that you may not have experienced before.
Some call it 'ego-dissolution'. Buddhists call it 'samadhi'. You may call it enlightenment, oneness with the universe, or just plain fun.
And it IS fun. In the process, you also flood your whole body with happy neurotransmitters in a way that makes every cell in your being feel like it's a shining beacon.
Master Mantak Chia's book, 'The Multiorgasmic Man', discusses all of this in much greater detail. I'm just giving you the basic outline here.
In fact, the mulitorgasmic training is only one part of the much bigger Metamorphosis Mentorship Program. You can download the first lecture for that course for free at www.thetaoofdating.com/metamorphosis
That's all for now. And remember -- practice makes perfect.
The power is within you,
Dr Alex
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