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Being an Alpha Male»
by The Modern Man
of The Modern Man
October 12th, 2006
Why do alpha males attract the most desirable of women?
To answer that question, we're going to talk about why 'masculinity' is naturally attractive to women.
Let's get you started by looking at a fundamental fact of nature:
MASCULINE ENERGY ATTRACTS FEMININE ENERGY.
And
FEMININE ENERGY ATTRACTS MASCULINE ENERGY.
What do I mean by that?
Women (the feminine) are naturally attracted to masculine men.
A man's masculinity creates a NATURAL and POWERFUL sexual charge inside of a woman, which simply CANNOT be achieved - at the same intensity - with a guy who is neutral or feminine.
Neutral guy: Neither masculine, nor feminine. He's usually a nice, unassuming guy that is not the alpha male» in social situations.
He's attracted to women, but doesn't have a massive drive to get to the point of sex with a woman. He usually just blends into the crowd.
Feminine guy: Behaves in a feminine way (i.e. by wearing pink, being emotional, being submissive, giggling and gossiping like a girl).
When it comes to naturally attracting women, you will definitely need to focus on becoming more masculine.
What, like work on getting bigger muscles?
That can help, but it's not essential.
How do I become more masculine?
Masculinity comes in various forms and is not limited to the physical.
For example:
- Masculine psychology (This is extremely attractive to women in the modern world).
- Masculine behaviour.
- Masculine personality traits.
No doubt you've met at least one 'alpha male»' in your lifetime, who didn't have big muscles or wasn't 6ft tall.
For example: Have you ever seen a small, lean man who is confident, assertive and direct?
Great, well his confidence, assertiveness and direct nature are all masculine traits.
...and you can develop those traits too! When you do, you will notice that women will have no choice but to become naturally attracted to you.
Just like how you have no choice but to become naturally attracted to a woman's nice figure and cleavage.
Get it?
Good.
That should get you up to speed on the basics. Let's kick on...
Have you ever stopped to think about why 'cheerleaders' are often attracted to 'star quarterbacks' and vice versa?
Why does that sort of 'dating phenomenon' happen time and time again?
Apart from the superficial reasons such as increased popularity, their attraction is primarily based on the amazing feelings and experiences they can achieve from each others’ SEXUAL POLARITY.
Think about it...
Cheerleaders are often very FEMININE and star quarterbacks are often very MASCULINE, so their sexual polarity blends together to create a MAGNETIC sexual attraction.
Their different personality traits and behaviours create two POLAR opposites.
Now, stop and take a few seconds to picture a guy who has a feminine personality; a bit of a 'girl' if you might.
Depending on her psychology, a feminine woman will find it virtually impossible to feel attraction for a feminine guy.
But, wait a minute...
Why then, do women often say "I want a nice guy who cares for me and does thoughtful things"?
Interesting question. Even more interesting is the answer...
When woman says such a thing, she isn't imagining a feminine guy who'll be kissing up to her and being soft, gentle and thoughtful all the time. She's imagining a man who can make her FEEL LIKE A WOMAN with his sexy, masculine personality and also surprise her with a bit of thoughtful, gentle and nice behaviour...SOMETIMES.
Starting to get it?
Good.
Put up your hand if you ever played with magnets as a kid.
Can you remember what happened when you tried to stick two of the same POLES together?
They repelled away from each other, right?
Much is the same with sexual attraction in terms of MASCULINE and FEMININE energy. As the old cliche so rightly goes: OPPOSITES attract.
But, that isn't the end of the story.
No.
I also want you to notice how the masculine energy blends into the feminine in the Yin & Yang circle.
You might be asking "Okay, but what does that signify?"
That's charm my friend.
It's a side of you that comes in SMALL DOSES and can sweep a woman off her feet.
Do it too much and:
1) You will become too feminine.
2) It will lose it's charm, and;
3) You will naturally REPEL her.
But, you want to naturally ATTRACT her...right?
Of course you do.
So, what's the solution?
Be a MAN and allow her to be a WOMAN.
SOME examples of a man being FEMININE:
* Caring TOO MUCH about his appearance (e.g. getting pedicures and manicures to 'look nice').
* Being prissy.
* Being shy and quiet around other guys (i.e. behaving like the omega (lowest ranking) male in social situations).
* Huddling into a woman like she is his replacement mummy.
Now, give me a nod and promise that you'll never behave like that.
Promise?
Good.
Here are some examples of a man being MASCULINE:
* Being emotionally strong in difficult situations.
* Maintaining a masculine physique.
* Having a purpose in life and going after what he wants.
* Being socially confident (i.e. behaving like an alpha (highest ranking) male in social situations).
* 'Taking charge' in the bedroom.
You have my approval to do any of those things.
Here are some examples of a MASCULINE man being charming with a woman:
* Opening the door for her like a gentleman.
* Gently stroking her body following a session of hard, passionate sex.
* Holding her in a way that allows her to feel like his GIRL, who is safe and protected from the world.
* Surprising her out of the blue with something special or thoughtful.
Cheers
Dan
The Modern Man
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