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Learning to Convey Emotion
by Ben (Modern Man Coach)
of The Modern Man
February 24th, 2006
Today I am going to talk about a key component when it comes to sparking attracting with women: Conveying emotion.
To start, let’s look at an example of what a conversation feels like without emotion.
Stop and remember the last time you called someone and received their answering machine. You listened to hear their voice message, only to find a scripted message from the manufacturer.
“HELLO, NO-ONE IS AVAILABLE TO TAKE YOUR CALL. PLEASE LEAVE A MESSAGE AFTER THE TONE. BEEEEEP.”
What did you feel while listening to the message?
Not much I bet.
Why?
Because there was no emotion behind the voice.
Now stop and remember a time when you called someone and received their PERSONALLY RECORDED message.
“Hey, you’ve reached Jackie. Am probably busy right now, but leave your number and I’ll buzz ya back! Catch ya!”
Feel any different?
Why?
Studies have shown that words make up 7% of communication; the remaining 93% is made up of voice tone and body language».
While the tonality of the personally recorded message contained EMOTION and personality, the scripted message didn’t. Emotions are important; they give flavour and meaning to our interactions, much the same way herbs and spices do to our food.
So how is this relevant to naturally attracting women?
Women respond to guys who convey emotion in their interactions.
It’s very attractive.
Time and time again I have seen guys get into a conversation with a girl and suddenly become stilted and emotionally guarded. In doing so, they don’t make the woman FEEL good emotions and ruin the attraction.
As I am often heard saying:
“The most important thing is how you make a woman FEEL.”
I’ve heard women say things like:
“I met this great guy recently. We went out on a date…but I felt NOTHING. So…yeah, I’m not interested…maybe as a friend or something, but that’s all…”
Why?
As I said before, women care most about how you make them feel. Not your looks or money.
How you make them FEEL.
Mills & Boon understand this, and are making a fortune through romance novels.
To add more clarity to this topic, let’s place it in context…
Imagine going on a date with girl who was wearing a poncho covering her from top to toe. All you could see were her eyes.
How attracted would you be?
Not much.
Why?
Men become attracted to the physical beauty of a woman FIRST and then scan for EMOTIONAL attractiveness. Women on the other hand, see and feel PERSONALITY and become attracted, then rationalise that the guy is cute.
Looks really don’t matter.
Just have a look around at all the below-average looking guys dating beautiful women. It happens all the time.
So, you may be asking “How can I help a woman see and feel my personality?”
By conveying emotion.
Let’s look at a specific way of doing it.
Take Sean Connery for example.
In my opinion, he is the best James Bond by far. His ability to display wit, charm and charisma is second to none. Rent the 1964 classic ‘Goldfinger’ and at the 1h 22min mark, watch the scene with Sean Connery and Honor Blackman (a.k.a Pussy Galore).
Watch how he interacts with her.
One of his best assets as James Bond is his ability to convey emotion and make people feel.
How does he do it?
Through his BODY LANGUAGE» and RESPONSES to the world around him.
Freeze frame the expression Connery gives Blackman when she looks back after being thrown in the hay. (1h 23min and 55sec into the movie).
What does his expression communicate?
To me it communicates:
THE CHALLENGE OF YOU HIDING YOUR ATTRACTION TOWARDS ME IS ENDEARING, BECAUSE WE BOTH KNOW YOU CAN’T RESIST ME.
Fantastic.
His facial expression says it all. Like him, you don’t actually have to say anything to communicate what he did in that scene.
No clever lines, no tricks.
You can do it.
You too can have the same sort of expression on your face; it’s something that I see time and time again from guys who are naturally attractive to women.
The ability to communicate in this way is like pouring petrol on the spark of attraction. Women find it irresistible, hence why Sean Connery as James Bond is considered one of the sexiest men to have graced the silver screen.
There are many other ways to convey emotion in an attractive way. You can find plenty of examples and tips in Dan’s e-book ‘Becoming a Man Who Naturally Attracts Women.’
It is an amazing book and we’re tipping that it’ll become a ‘must have’ in this industry. It has EVERYTHING you need to know.
In the meantime, I am going to give you a little assignment.
While at home, practice different facial expressions and try to communicate these messages:
1) I know you’re attracted to me.
2) I am cheeky, and you love it.
3) You’re trying to pick me up.
Then when you are next interacting with a girl, feel free to experiment using these expressions.
Watch the change in response.
When you learn to convey emotion in your interactions, you will experience greater success in your ability to spark attraction and create interest with women.
Ben - Modern Man Coach
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