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Overcoming your fear of rejection
by The Modern Man
of The Modern Man
October 12th, 2006
They say you shouldn’t assume anything in life.
And they’re mostly right.
Except when it comes women and dating.
In a few moments, I’ll reveal a secret of guys who are naturally good with women. I'll then recommend that you absolutely ASSUME it when interacting with a woman that you desire.
By doing so, you will be well on your way to overcoming your fear of rejection.
Okay, let's get started...
The very THOUGHT of being rejected by a woman is enough to make most men feel nauseous.
Can you picture it now?
You approach her and say something to start a conversation. She then looks at you as if to say, "Get away from me you creep!"
Can you imagine how you'd feel in that moment? Overwhelmed by feelings of humiliation and embarrassment...
FEAR OF REJECTION is why millions of men around the world get boozed up every weekend and hope to ‘get lucky’ with women. Unable to simply ignore the fear, they dull it with alcohol and hope for the best.
But YOU are different.
You are now working on overcoming your fear of rejection.
You should be proud of yourself for taking action.
It’s interesting...
I've known men who have done big business deals, battled opponents in the boxing ring, sky-dived out of planes...but those very same men FREEZE UP when it comes to approaching women.
They become paralysed and just can’t bring themselves to do it.
This sort of behaviour gives credit to my favourite saying:
"It’s one thing to understand something and another to be able to do it."
Meaning that most guys will say, "Yeah, all you’ve gotta do is be confident», go up and start a conversation. She won’t bite."
But how many guys do you know that have the confidence to do so, when they see a woman that they desire?
Slim to none, I bet.
You’ll often hear excuses like:
- Nah, I’m not in the mood.
- She probably has a boyfriend.
- I don’t have anything to talk to her about.
- She’ll probably slap me or something.
Well, here’s the GOOD NEWS for YOU:
If you follow my advice, you will:
- Learn how to naturally attract women WITHOUT the need to get all boozed up.
- Learn how to completely eliminate your fear of rejection.
- Develop the sort of self-confidence that women find irresistibly attractive.
And here’s some even BETTER NEWS for YOU:
Unless you’re acting like a jackass and walking up being a total sleaze; women won’t slap you, ridicule you or intentionally try to hurt or embarrass you.
If they’re not interested you’ll often get a simple, "Sorry, I have boyfriend" or something else to show she’s not interested.
Seriously.
Women aren't as evil as you fear allows you to believe.
It's also important to recognise the difference between 'BEING REJECTED' and the 'FEAR OF REJECTION'.
One is real and one is imaginary.
And BEING REJECTED is not a big deal anyway.
Really, it isn't.
The Modern Man coaches and I have approached thousands of women and the worst we’ve ever got is a, "Sorry, I have a boyfriend", "Why are you talking to us?" or the women ignoring any attempts to converse.
Ooooh, scary!
It’s like water of a duck’s back. No hard feelings. No tears.
Let's take a couple of steps back for a moment...
I know that some of you will be reading this thinking, "Okay, this is great and I see your point...but HOW do I get over my fear of being rejected and approach a woman when I see her? I mean, I understand what you're saying, but when it's time to act - I often chicken out."
And seeing that I'm such a nice guy, I'm going to give you the answer.
Are you ready?
Are you sure?
Okay, you need to replace your thoughts of REJECTION with POSITIVE thoughts of success.
For example...
Instead of thinking:
- What if get rejected?
- She'll probably think I'm a weirdo.
- Women aren't attracted to me.
Try thinking:
- Women love interacting with me.
- Women are attracted to confident guys. I'll be demonstrating confidence by approaching her/talking to her.
- Women are attracted to me.
- Interacting with women is easy for me.
You are CREATING the fear by assuming the outcome will be bad, even though you have no idea how it will go.
...so, stop robbing yourself of the confidence - and women of the chance to meet you - by thinking ineffective thoughts.
Okay, now do you remember when I said “...I will reveal something and recommend that you absolutely ASSUME it when interacting with a woman you desire” ?
Good.
Here it is...
ASSUME that the right amounts of rapport and attraction are ALREADY present for you to be totally comfortable around the woman you want to interact with/are interacting with.
ASSUME that it’s ok to talk like you are old friends, or even new lovers.
ASSUME it with women from now on and your life change.
Suddenly women will feel much more COMFORTABLE around you and vice versa.
Thanks and all the best.
Dan
The Modern Man
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