| Information about The Modern Man |
| The men from Down Under have long been known for their skills with women, and The Modern Man shares some of the knowledge of our Aussie brothers with you. The Modern Man teaches you how to be like guys who are naturally good with women. If you want to be a man who naturally attracts women, these articles are for you. To find out more about The Modern Man, visit them at www.themodernman.com. |
<< main archive home < The Modern Man archive home
Purpose
by Modern Man Dan
of The Modern Man
January 3rd, 2006
If you've ever read a self-improvement book, or studied up on how to be successful you'd have noticed a common trend:
You need to have a PURPOSE.
In other words, you need to know WHAT you want and WHY you are doing it.
You then need to WRITE IT DOWN as a GOAL or break it up into MINI-GOALS.
So, let me ask you:
* Do you really know WHAT you want when it comes to women?
* Do you know WHY you are working on this area of your life? And...
* Have you written it down?
Here's some interesting information:
* Most people don't achieve great success because they never stop and really DECIDE to.
* Having vague ideas of what you want will produce vague results.
* Success gurus from all over the world promote the importance of 1) Having clear goals and 2) WRITING them down.
* I once came across an interesting study that revealed only 3% of people ever write down and follow through on their goals.
In that study, the 3% of people were more successful, wealthy and experience a better standard of living.
Are you in that 3% of people?
No?
Would you want to be if you knew that it meant being able to attract the women you REALLY desire?
Hats off to those of you who already write down and follow through on their goals. For those of you who aren't: START today.
Seriously.
If you take 10 minutes to work out your WHAT and WHY regarding women, then you'll be steps ahead of the majority of guys floating through life with only vague ideas.
10 minutes...have you got 10 minutes?
Take my situation as an example:
A few years back, I only had VAGUE ideas of WHAT I wanted and WHY. Consequently, I ended up in all sorts of crazy relationships that left me gritting my teeth and thinking "What the hell am I doing with this girl?"
How times have changed.
I now know EXACTLY what I want and HOW to get it.
So, today I'm going to cover two main areas:
1) What most men want.
2) Why most men settle for less.
WHAT MOST MEN WANT
I'm sure that many of you can relate to this: You and your buddy drinking beers and dreaming about sleeping with hundreds of women over the next few years. Then one day, one of you meets a great girl and says "I'm hanging up my boots...I really like this girl and am going to stay with her."
Why does this happen?
Well, one thing is for certain: The female subscribers of this newsletter will be glad to read what I'm about to say next...
80-90% of men just want to find a GREAT woman to have a GREAT long-term relationship with.
Both male and female readers may now be thinking "That doesn't make sense...I know plenty of guys who just want to have sex with heaps of women."
True.
Yet most men will STOP if they find a GREAT woman.
(How LONG they stop for depends on a lot of things, which we won't get into in this newsletter edition).
Depending on our personal psychology, we also have different ideas of what a GREAT woman is.
I personally consider a woman to be GREAT if she has the following qualities:
* Naturally good-looking.
* Takes care of herself physically.
* Feminine.
* Emotionally intelligent and stable.
* Sexual.
* Warm-hearted.
* Honest.
* Financially stable.
* Isn't 'needy', but still wants her man deeply and on many levels.
Now, I know that some of you guys reading this newsletter may be thinking "Geez, all that would be great...but I'd settle for half of those qualities!"
And stay with a woman who was cold-hearted? Or Dishonest? Or very unattractive?
WHY MOST MEN SETTLE FOR LESS
1) They SECRETLY BELIEVE that they can't attract GREAT women.
2) They FEAR it would be too hard to keep a great woman interested, because she would ALWAYS be receiving favourable attention from other men.
3) They don't take the time to become NATURALLY attractive to women of that calibre.
I've known guys who have taken the time to improve themselves and gone on to date AMAZINGLY beautiful women.
Most of them DECIDED to get this area of their life HANDLED at some stage along the way. In doing so, not only have they become more successful with women - many other areas of their life have improved as well.
The same can happen for you.
Want some more GOOD news?
OK, I'll ask you a question: Have you ever seen a beautiful woman with an AVERAGE-LOOKING guy?
Of course you have - it happens ALL THE TIME!
How about a BELOW AVERAGE-LOOKING guy?
Of course.
The fact is, you DON'T have to be a male model with piles of money to attract a GREAT woman.
You just need to know what we know.
All is revealed on our Lifestyle Courses, at our Seminars and in my e-book Becoming a Man Who Naturally Attracts Women.
Hope to hear from you soon!
Modern Man Dan
INFORMATION ABOUT THIS ARCHIVE:
This is an article which has been archived from a
contribution from The Modern Man,
republished here with explicit permission. Your accessing this article and
any contents within it do not denote any transfer or permission of further
reproduction. Your access of the contents of this article is for private
and personal use only.
By accessing this article, you understand that the information contained in within is an expression of opinions, and it should be used for personal entertainment purposes only. You are responsible for your own behavior, and none of anything you read herein is to be considered legal or personal advice. You also understand and agree that any products you may order as a result of your reading about them in this article are produced and sold independently from us and that any complaints, disputes or other issues which you may have with the sponsors of these products are to be dealt with directly with said sponsors and we are not responsible in any way whatsoever for any issues which you may have with them. If you are not in agreement with any of this, please leave this site now.
DISCLAIMERS:
This contents of this article are reproduced here with the
explicit permission of The Modern Man and is
Copyright© by The Modern Man.
Visual enhancements and search features have been added by the fastseduction.com
webmaster to facilitate the reading and researching of the content. Products,
services, or external web sites mentioned or linked to in this article does not denote
endorsement of those items. The contents reprinted here are the opinion of the
original writer(s) and are not necessarily the opinion of, nor endorsed by, the owner(s)
or operator(s) of fastseduction.com. The article enhancements are generated
automatically and there may be occasions where the visual cues don't correlate exactly
with the textual context; most of the time, though, the enhancements are pretty
accurate.
