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Tips on Approaching Women
by The Modern Man
of The Modern Man
October 12th, 2006
No doubt you've heard that 'what you say' isn't the most important thing.
Your body language», tonality and 'vibe' are the most important things when you are approaching women.
Two major excuses guys have for not approaching women:
Excuse # 1: "I don't know what to say..."
Excuse # 2: "She's probably heard all the lines...and besides, I can't think of something original or amazing to sweep her off her feet."
Tell me...
Do you really think that you need to sweep a woman off her feet with an amazing opening line in order to be successful?
No.
What you say isn't the most important thing.
Why?
It is not WHAT you say, but HOW you say it.
Don't want to believe that because it sounds too simple? Then do something for me...
STOP for a moment and practice saying the following in at least 4 different ways:
"Hi, I noticed you when I walked in...and I just had to come over and find out what you were like...my name's __________"
Say it:
A. In a nervous way that suggests you're scared of being rejected.
B. With a 'pick up persona' that suggests you're trying to pick her up (e.g. sleazy» tonality and body language»).
C. With an endearing 'James Bond smile' on your face, a bit of a squint in your eyes and a raised eyebrow. The non-verbal signal you should be aiming to convey here is "I know that you want me...in fact, I'm kind of intrigued myself...let's flirt with each other and see what happens."
Note: For an excellent example of using body language» to communicate in a powerful way with women, watch the movie 'Goldfinger' with Sean Connery playing James Bond. Freeze frame the expression Connery gives Honor Blackman (a.k.a. 'Pussy Galore' in the movie) when she looks back after being thrown in the hay. (1h 23min and 55sec into the movie).
D. In a calm, composed and self-assured way that suggests you have NO DOUBT she will be attracted to you. You'll often hear a woman say things like, "I like a man who knows what he wants and isn't afraid to get it." Going with option 4 is partly what she means. Note: The 'how to' of being a man like that is explained in detail in our e-Book Become a Man Who Naturally Attracts Women.
So, which of the above approaches is correct?
Obviously you'll want to avoid 1 & 2.
I'd suggest blending 3 & 4.
Now, off you go. Go out and approach some women!
You're still reading.........I guess you want a few more tips on approaching women.
I'm feeling pretty generous at the moment, so I am going to reveal another little secret that makes approaching women easy.
Grab a pen and paper or open a new file on your PC.
1. Write headings like: Supermarket, Bookstore, Bar, Club, Take-away store, etc.
2. Under each heading note down the SITUATIONS that you often see women in at these PLACES. For example: In a bookstore, you may see a woman reading a book, flicking through a magazine, in line at the counter, in the romance section, having a coffee, etc.
3. For each of the situations you identify, write down at least 3 different comments you could make to start an interaction.
Think of the situations and places one at a time...
Now, can you begin to picture yourself approaching women in those places?
Dan
The Modern Man
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