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Not too too much to say here without being
repetitive.
Two of my good friends were up visiting me
today from Calgary, a couple, and wanted to
have drinks with me tonight before heading
back. I had arranged to meet HBWaitress at 9PM.
This to me is not a big deal and I think it's
just part of real life. I don't ever view my
friends as OBSTACLES. Nor the woman's friends
either for that matter. I just think that's
a limiting belief and guys should try to
move past that.
I simply told her she was going to meet my
friends. I agreed with my friends that they
would stay for about an hour with us and then
take off. I think HBWaitress found all this
pretty normal and thinks I am a cool guy who
likes to fuck. I've been a bit perplexed
lately as to why this sort of thing is even
an issue for some people
Total time spent interacting with this woman
from initial meet to sex at my house, less
than three hours. Could I have done it
quicker if I told my friends to fuck off? I
really don't think so. I DID get some LMR and
I did some debriefing and here's what I found
out.
"She's not that kind of girl". She happens to
like me and therefore doesn't want me to
think badly of her. In cases like this, I
think one should act like having sex quickly
is perfectly normal. My friends acted as
perfect wings for me and gave an impression
that I and what I am doing are perfectly
normal.
I've been reading Razorjack's archive where
he talks about women who are validation
junkies and like to kino guys right off the
bat in order to induce men to chase. Well,
we have such a case here! Reading that really
helped me a lot. I always tell guys to amp
the woman's sexual state via sexual push
pull, and always being less reactive than she
is to kino etc. Well, if I had not read this
advice, I might have had the wrong
impression, that she was super into me super
fast. Let me qualify, she WAS super into me,
obviously, but this would become an
unconscious shit test that I would have
failed had I been too reactive to her kino.
For example she would lean in close to me
when trying to hear what I was saying in the
loud bar we were in, and look at my eyes
then my lips then put her lips really close
to mine and then stop there. Razorjack taught
me exactly what she was doing! So I just kept
the frame that, yes, a kiss would be nice,
but SHE wants it even more than I do. Prior
to this, I would have planted a kiss on her
right there.
Let me tell you that getting a woman to say
"please" when the tip of your dick is sitting
right there, is some of the best sexual
pleasure I know of! And this is how you do
it.
She gave some LMR when back at my place, and
I just didn't let it phase me or bother me.
I would take a step back, then two steps
forward. If she wasn't pulling me into her,
I would get up and get some water, or start
talking to her and light kino on her arms
etc. And even WHEN she was pulling me into
her, I would sometimes pull back as well.
It's important for really hot sex – in my
opinion – that the man is the LEADER.. .and
that is what I am doing here.
She has a beautiful face and is soft in all
the right places. A lot of guys might
overlook her because of her chubb, and I
don't give a shit. I think she is hot!
Another interesting thing... notice how I
give her a nice SOI at the right time... I
started to play with her pussy in and around
her panties and I really love to give women
pleasure so I was naturally paying attention
to the way I was turning her on... well when
my fingers got just inside the wetness she
let out a gasp and said "it's been so long
since I've been touched like that!" So guess
what I did? I STOPPED and gave her an SOI.
See the push pull here?
I literally stopped what I was doing and I
said:
"bullshit!
Note that I did not pull away from her, I
simply ceased the motion with my fingers.
This made her pull me in closer and give me a
wide-open mouth kiss. Sexual push pull,
gentlemen. Fun stuff!
In order to induce her to come back for more
I alternated between fucking her and making
love to her, giving her lots of EC and deep,
tender kisses. She just got home and texted
me saying she had a great time and would like
to see me again. And she will
