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Part 2, approach anxiety.
The cure for approach anxiety is repeated exposure. There is no other cure. You desensitize yourself to the cause of anxiety.
Then there is Post Approach Axiety. That’s when you are chatting, realize you’re attracted or nervous, and your heart races.
The cure for this—repeated exposure.
Do this 100 times. Then, you should be fine.
So by this point you have enough cold approach experience to approach a group, and not be blown out. You can do this consistently, in any environment day or night.
Here’s how I do it.
Say that to yourself.
Don’t think, just do.
If you’ve ever been in the military, this is the perfect soldier. He is trained through repetition in the harshest conditions.
That’s why you go to clubs, or malls, and do tons and tons of approaches. You make every mistake in the book. You will creep people out, you will have drama. And then one day….it happens. You become advanced. Then, you become “cool.”
You don’t fear people in the slightest. Approaching a hot woman is the same as asking a fat old man for the time. It’s the same as walking up some stairs, eating a sandwich, taking a shit.
You don’t think—you do.
Don’t be a beggar
My lips move before my mind.
My lips move before my mind.
