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Let me try to explain and also provide some examples.
I have said before that women LOVE push-pull. It's like dancing for them.
Whereas the masculine man tends to drive towards a goal, a feminine woman
really gets off on the PROCESS, the roller coaster, the uncertainty, the teasing,
the PLAY of it all.
If you do not do this correctly the woman WILL DO IT HERSELF. That's what LMR
is. For example "hey, slow down, I am not ready yet", means that YOU should
have ALREADY pulled back, unexpectedly and before she has to tell you to do so.
Don't worry about this if it seems complex, it's just something that gets better
and better with experience, if you know what to look for and are willing to have
a woman teach you in this way.
When a woman says "slow down", she is TEACHING you something.
I also always say, in order to do this properly you must want the sex to happen
slightly LESS than she does. If not, then you shift the power to her magic pussy
and if she is FEMININE, this will ACTUALLY TURN HER OFF. The reason is because
she knows her pussy controls you, that you cannot LEAD HER where she wants to
go.
Please believe me when I say that women LOVE to be fucked, just like Alexyss Tylor
says (see video clip), but they only usually want it from men who know what
they are doing. Otherwise, a dildo is usually more appealing to her because she can
FANTASIZE about the man she wants or has had in the past (again, see video).
So this is a question of feeling the rhythm she is at, synchronizing with her, and then
LEADING her. Let me reiterate: She needs and craves push-pull... if she is DIRECTING
you as to the pace of it, then she is LEADING, and you are FOLLOWING. Not the way to
make a feminine woman get wet.
Some Specific Examples
So what I do is kiss her, but pull back from doing it. Get my lips so close to hers
where she can feel my breath and she is REACHING TOWARDS ME. Then I have the
option to pull back.
Or get her naked and hot and ready and then put my hand up and say "wait, I want
to see some id. I think you are too young for me" (if she's young).
Or put just the tip in and where she is saying "come on you bastard, fuck me!" and then
I will make her say please, and then when she does I will shove it all the way in deep
(again, see video).
Or when she is about to come I pull my dick out completely and then start kissing her
passionately.
When I make her laugh in online chat, I will GET UP AND GO PEE right at the peak.
Or tell her I've got to go. Or if she is a hardcore Freak/Adventuress, give her a
backhanded compliment/neg when it's needed. For example today she was saying
something about how hot she is and I said yeah but her bum is too small for my
tastes. Then I had to go take a phone call. Then I told her a joke. Then I cut her
off.
The point is that if she is telling you slow down, stop, wait, go back, tell me you love
me first, etc. etc. then this is usually an indication that you want this to happen a lot
more than she does, which means you are fucked, and not in a good way.
I know it's hard (pun fully intended) when you have a beautiful young woman naked
in front of you, or making out hard with you, to hold back and KEEP LEADING. But it's the
correct way to get her super aroused, where you are the prize.
Consider this: let's say you really dig a girl, think she is completely hot, and all you can
think about is the types of noises she is gonna make while you are banging her from
behind? It's normal and natural and there ain't nothin wrong with it. But consider that
feeling and then ADD TO THAT, ie she is feeling the same YET EVEN MORE. Does that
sound like a nice arrangement? I sure think so!
Leadership and push-pull combined are what makes LMR go away for me.
