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These things come naturally at (usually) the right time and thats because I'm well calibrated. If you think you're well enough calibrated to drop your canned lines and whatever structure you follow and switch to natural gaming», here's my suggestion.
Vibing and Banter
These are two sides of the same sword, and that sword is called being interesting to talk to. When you're talking to a girl, you need to hold her interest. The most stripped down way of doing this is through vibing and bantering.
Vibing
I see vibing as a fun give and take in a discussion. Vibing also makes good use of emotions - those chemicals in your brain that are literally addicting.
It's fun, it's hit-and-dodge, you give a little, she gives a little, you take some, she gives some more, you give some more... It's the way you and your best friend talk when you reminisce about a funny event in your past.. It's being on the same frequency as someone else, riding the same wave, and all the while you're looking over at them enjoying it and they see you enjoying it too. Because you're on the same "frequency" there's a lot of agreeing going on.
To vibe, bring up a subject, in this case your little nephew Dwight. You say how funny of kid he is, going around your back yard looking for bugs under rocks. She replies how cute it is. You go on to say that he's adorable, so innocent and free-spirited, and how you'd do anything for the little bugger (pun?). You say you bet she was a total dork as a kid. She may agree and you say "Not much has changed has it?" She playfully hits your arm and you bring her in for a hug, saying you didn't mean to hurt the wittle baby... She hits you again and you bring up the fact that your like two 10 year olds on the play ground, where pretending you don't like someone really means.... You like like them..
Vibing can also be based around a negative emotion, and while we generally tend to focus on positive emotions in PU, you can use vibing on a negative emotion for your advantage. Vibe about a broad spectrum of emotions because girls LOVE emotions.. Duh. Keep it mainly on positive emotions tho.
Vibing and banter together are fun and will keep a girl interested.
Escalating and Kino
You need to be kinoing people all the time to begin with. Just do it. Do it early, often and especially on high points.
Escalating is NECESSARY to get to sex, period. Generally girls expect you to escalate, so you need to get in the habit of doing this. Check out Vin Dicarlo's Escalation Ladder. This also deals with logistics, ASD and LMR, as all are necessary to handle in order to reach sex.
The interesting thing about vibing paired with escalation is that once you start escalating, it creates sexual tension all on its own. Not a huge amount but especially in the later stages of escalating, i.e. kissing and neck smelling. Pair escalating with a sexual vibe and you'll spike the girls BT enough to storm her castle on your steed.
That's it, that's your foundation to natural game» and it alone will get you laid. Get those things down and then throw on whatever you'd like on top of it.
Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in getting up every time we do.
I realized recently that there hasn't been much structure and definitely no canned lines in my game lately. Sure, techniques have been used but not consciously.. I'm not sitting there thinking, ok, cocky funny line here, now a takeaway, now an SOI..
There are two main things you need to learn that are the foundation of natural game» - vibing/banter and escalating/kino. That's it.
Banter is vibing's teasing cousin. It's more jokes and playful teases, less agreeing and more of playful verbal wrestling. It's like when you see two puppies playing in a kennel.. They kinda look like they're fighting but you know they're having fun and love each other. Do this verbally.
Confucius
