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Every once and a while, when I'm in a dry spell, I'll come to this site for help and rebound a bit. But, I suppose I never addressed the underlying problem: I put the C in AFC. Let me tell you about what a big chump I am.
1. I read too deeply into situations and blow the openings that come.
I could go on, but I think I've made my point.
It's not hopeless, though. I'm a good looking guy, dress well, I'm in shape, I'm funny, and have a great job lined up after college. Once a girl is interested in me, the next thing I know we're making out. LMR? No problem. It's getting to these stages that has me stumped and frustrated.
If I had to pick my biggest weaknesses, it'd probably be overcoming AA and escalating a relationship over a few weeks. I've read hundreds of posts and articles about overcoming AA, and I just can't bring myself to do the whole "fail over and over" thing.
If you've been where I am, encouragement would be great. And, if you're where I was, still lurking on this board hoping that maybe something will finally sink in, register an account and get your ass posting.
I've lurked around these boards and this site for a couple of years now. This isn't a substantial post content-wise, I suppose, but represents, to me, that I'm actually going to get better at handling the women in my life, and that I know I'm ultimately responsible for my success with women.
2. FREEZE in place from extreme AA.
3. Women open on me all the time, and I blow it just as often.
4. I let objects of oneitis control me and define me as a man.
5. I put up with any shit a woman gives me, because I'm too afraid to cut them loose.
6. I let AMOG's walk all over me.
