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Now these aren't techs, just tendencies.
Distraction Vs Obvious Progression:
Distraction: Just notice things, most others wouldn't, by staying away from the obvious.
Girl: Whats your name
Ignoring: Just don't focus on what anyone else wants you to.
Example:
Girl: What are you going to do about that
People like to make a big deal out of things, its a comfort thing.
Bad Example:
Idiot: Sarah, I want to kiss you now (thinking he's creating tension)
Better Example:
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Some Vibe Tendencies:
The more you can understand what the other person is saying, or the more you care about what they are actually saying/doing, likely the less vibe you have.
Obviously, innane babbling, wins the day. But not cuz of the babbling. Babbling is stupid. Its only called babble, because the words cease to have much more of a purpose than to simply CARRY the vibe, thats going on between the two of you.
Vibing, is usually VERY touchy feely. And sexual tension.. Is "holy mother fuck shit yeah, i'm gonna rip your clothes off.."
And its because, the presense of tension, seems to cloud, the somewhat boldly defined line of "what exactly is, or isn't touching" and blur it into an undestinguishable haze.
So not even being close to her, is also touching her. Its a strange thing, when even words, and movements tickle.
Its like, being close to them, IS touching them. I guess you could say touching and other things of the like are much less distinguishable.
(this not only applies to touching, but other things, like what exactly is talking, kissing, or what is sex, all those become a little "hazey" too)
You are just so certain, until.. A SUPRISE!
Because, after all.. What is the use, of a persons older concepts of value..
Nobody gives a shit about the OLD crap, if a suprise, has highlighted the situation isn't even like that anyways.
Unexpected stuff, seems to really give a buzz.
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These are just tendencies.
Just think about it..
It makes you a bit of an enigma, a bit of a leader.. Girls just seem to "bump" into you a bit more. You are seemingly more in control.
But overall, you aren't invincible.
These things are TENDENCIES. Stay slightly towards the tension tendencies, and you will as a whole, TEND, to have more tension.
Understand, that tension, TENDS, to be towards these tendencies, and you will more clearly, understand just what exactly tension is, and is not.
The reason I post this, is because, tension is a bit ironic at times. So you could easily get it backwards, if not careful .
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Distraction Vs Obvious Progression:
The last one, is perhaps the most perculiar..
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Do not expect, that if you do more towards these things, that you will get any kind of success.
I use BL, and other more undefineable techs, to create actual sexual tension, and vibing.
For the rest, just do what comes naturally. Breath, enjoy, visualise, follow instincts, etc.
- Cosy
PS:
Which is more towards tension..
Tension Tendencies:
Its kinda easy
Cosy: I like your hair
Girl: Whats your name
Cosy: (smiles, takes a breath)
Girl: Whats your name (hits cosy for name)
Cosy: (laughs, and seductively looks at her)
Ignoring Vs Paying Attention:
The real trick, is not ignoring.
Its getting away with it.
And not only getting away with it, but getting away with it EFFORTLESSLY and without even a HINT, of struggle.
(When you do it right, you get this feeling, and its an ability to "lead" people willingly.)
Both sitting down somewhere, a drink in your hand.
Cosy: ..
Girl: What are you going to do about that
Cosy: .. (looks in her direction, pauses slightly before a smile)
Girl: (would repeat herself, but she knows you heard)
Cosy: Hey (vibes a little)(drinks from his glass, puts it back down and relaxes)
No big deal Vs Aneurism:
But making things NOT a big deal, tends to make people take note. Its actually making things not a big deal, that is more hospitable to tension.
If a guy made a kiss a big deal, he GREATLY, reduces the chance of creating any tension.
Sarah: Wow, thats really somethin, there ted.. I'm gonna sit over here now.
Guy that doesn't make a big deal.
Dude: (leans in slowly, pauses just before her lips, and waits for her to smile)
Girl: (Smiles uncontrollably)
Dude: (just kisses)
So..
Innane Babble Vs Direct Lecture/Commitee Meeting
Its a thing of effortless communication, no longer really needing the shape of words.
Like a bird taking flight, no longer needing the ground. (you'll tend to gain a certain kind of "creativity" and ease to interaction)
Touching Vs Not Touching
The Unexpected Vs The Valued
To a persons NEW CONCEPTS, of value, when the situation has completely changed.
They care about the new stuff, the RIGHT NOW, stuff.
They won't seduce anyone.. Not alone, not really.
You are a guy that..
Is a bit more distracted than normal, gets away with ignoring people a bit, finds things no big deal, doesn't completely notice all the details of the words, doesn't really have a clear line of what is and isn't touching, and is just a little more interested in suprises than "value".
This is just meant to be so you don't get it backwards.
Ignoring Vs Paying Attention:
No big deal Vs Aneurism:
Innane Babble Vs Direct Lecture/Commitee Meeting
Touching Vs Not Touching
The Unexpected Vs The Valued
But I put it in, because, even though its a bit bizarre, it can help you understand, that tension, DESPISES, techs, and "things being figured out".
Its like Ijjjji says, about logic not being blah blah.
He's spot on.
The slight, tension you get from favoring the tension tendency, isn't much, trust me.
Usually, I have no clue, how I'm going to do it, till I'm there.
Actually..
One thing before I go..
Just to mess with you guys.
Sex?
Or...
Platonic?
(hint: use the tension tendencies)
