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Patience is thusly important. And a willingness to not force something is golden.
Pushing yourself, requires you to remain calm, it requires you to self sacrifice. It requires you to realise you can't force things. To realise the most power lies in what you aren't seeing just yet.
Pushing yourself, requires you to be creative. If one part of you is patient, another part of you is exploiting an opportunity to create a plan B.
And lastly, pushing yourself, requires faith in yourself.
In this vien, to succeed, requires only a very few things.
Patience, so you might be at peace ALWAYS.
Its not, shoulds, coulds, and musts.
The Tiger/Lion:
To push yourself, is EXACTLY like hunting.
Patience does not mean waiting. One can be patient on one thing, whilst working on another.
Don't give up on what you want, but realise that by having patience, and even by moving on, you may find the very way to achieve what you were after.
A hunter is MOST patient, when prey is CLOSE.
NOT through willpower, shoulds, or coulds (which drives away what is close).
And in that way, you keep opportunity CLOSE, to your teeth.
Pushing yourself to succeed, is a path, not of willpower, shoulds, or coulds.
It is not fostered by feeling you "should" be something. Its doesn't occur because you feel you "must" be something. And it really doesn't respond to "forcing" yourself to be something.
Pushing yourself, is a thing of adaptability and creativity.
About adjusting to new information, and acting in a way that gives you advantage.
To push yourself, isn't a thing of leverage, logic or willpower.. To push yourself is a thing of clearing your mind, and opening yourself to new and subtle possibilities. So you can notice what you might otherwise overlook.
It is in patience, that one is recognising what is truly important. Not that which you lack, but rather that which you can so easily overlook.
You can't use a faulty way of looking at things, to FORCE, a good result.
And plan Bs come best, from advantages you sniff in the moment. Things you'd probably love to do anyways, but can't really justify as your main plan.
So keep creativity on the backburner always.
Then if you DO have to switch plans, you can put the plan A on the back burner, whilst you pursue plan B.
You'll get closer, and closer, and closer, cuz you'll have more options, and continually work TOWARDS something.
So don't be afraid, to be working on several fronts. Whilst you are being patient in others.
And it, isn't about what traits you "see" in yourself. But having faith enough that you don't ever need to “know” something. You can ease up your grip a little, cuz you FEEL you got it handled.
- Patience
- Adaptability/creativity
- and faith in yourself
Adaptability/Creativity so that you might turn things to your favor, and have some fun, whilst always progressing.
And faith in yourself, so that you might let go of harmful ideas of “control” and “prophecy”. So you can move on, and hopefully get more than what you were after in the first place. (you can't imagine how high or how hard you can go, its like a rule).
Its patience, positive creativity, and having faith in yourself.
Patience, Faith, Creativity/Adaptability.
And a wise hunter is ALWAYS patient. Especially most when starving. For it keeps frustration away, which keeps "food" closer.
Much like a cat stalks its prey, you must be very patient, for the time WILL come, when you DO have that opportunity. And at that time, just how you use it is the mark of your skill.
Patience, is a mark of a hunter, and a hunter does not wait in a place with no prey. But is patient most, when an animal is close. As such, patience is an active thing, applied when close. As opposed to forcing what you already know and idling/daydreaming.
The single most destructive attribute, is impatience, frustration, and an appeal to "fair play"(spitefulness). To think you SHOULD be more, to think you DESERVE more. Is to be spiteful. And is akin to a man, yelling and running at a deer, scaring everything away.
The most common error, is a man, with so little faith, that he becomes aggressive. Or at a mere drop of hope, becomes fanatic, leaping out of the bushes, and everything getting away.
And it is in this same way, a person pushes themselves.
But like a cat, patiently stalking its prey.
Always have patience, faith in yourself, and an ability to be positively creative.
