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Sexual Spirit!!!
The Lights Should Guide Your Way:
The first principle of sex, is that, feelings, should guide your actions.
Instinct as a guide:
If you just reach out, logically, and consciously.. Your touch will feel forced.
If you are copying something out of a magazine, be careful, that you do it with the right SPIRIT.
Release yourself, forget yourself.. loosen up..
Story:
Basically,
Magic:
You should feel a sense of magic, to each others touch.
BASICS:
Bedroom eyes,
Give her, that intent look,
Don't try to force it, or get permission.
Bedroom eyes, is a soft look, a foxy look, a slightly squinted look. Maybe looking up a bit at her (or him, if you are a girl).
It requires that when you undress her, you do it with slow, stylish, movements.
Looking back at them, with a buzzing in the air and a hint of a smile, you go back to kissing them, or whatever..
Just have that spirited, 'bedroom' dynamic.
FEEL SEX:
At a high level, giving a girl sexual pleasure is something you FEEL.
Don't worry, I'm not about to say you have to be amazing and FEEL girls and how they are susceptable to orgasm.
Just TEND, to move towards understanding, that FEELINGS and INTUITIONS, tend to lead to more satiation, sexually.
There are many paths to this. So its really up to you.
ORGASM NEEDINESS (advanced section, fine to skip if without much experience):
Women can sometimes have 'cock neediness'.. Just like guys can have 'orgasm neediness'..
Sex isn't a goal,
If a girl is needy for your cock, or this or that.. don't get swept up in it.
Girls will get the drift..
Neither man nor woman, should be after, orgasm, cock, or pussy..
These are just some sex basics
MOST IMPORTANTLY:
I will skirt over a few basics, that can turn poor sex into, good enough sex.
Its important that some basics are covered, and that the nature of what sex is, is glimpsed or seen.
You may even feel lights, tracing the edges of the womans body.. showing you where to kiss, where to touch.
This makes the kisses, touches etc, all connect up with each other, and deliver a more powerful effect on a whole.
Fingering her pussy, kissing her endlessly, touching her endlessly, will become dry, and tasteless, even uncomfortable.
You may even feel her dry up, or your kisses become not so good, or your touches dry and without magic..
For just in and out, kiss kiss kiss, touch touch touch, sex, can be rediculously mind numbing.
Especially if your actions, are SPURRED by thoughts.
Don't think..
And touch, or do, what your intincts, tell you to do.
I once had this girl, go down on me, like it was out of a text book.. Not that great..
I had a girl, start scratching my back out of the blue, and I could tell, she wasn't thinking about it, that it was just instinctive.. It turned me on like nobodies business.
FORCED sex, sucks
WILLING sex, spirited sex, is good and decent.
Doesn't have to be much..
But SOMETHING..
This comes from not thinking, more spontaneous/impulsive/guided by instinct or lights actions.
Learn how to make some bedroom eyes.
And when the girl is submissive and sexual in your arms, perhaps lead her, and lure her into the sex location.
That sexy look that fills her with passion.
Touch her well, lure her well..
Have the right spirit, the bedroom eyes, spirit (this is a nice basic).
The old classic girl, unbuckling your belt, then fastly pulling it off..
The old, slip hands up under the shirt, then, quick and off with it.
Its sexy, its fun, and its one way to set a stable foundation for decent sex.
At a low level, everything is dull, confusing, and I'll be fucked if I know what is going on.
But I want you to know.. that its what you generally FEEL is going to work, that makes girls orgasm.. Not so much, that their is a specific way or method, or that its about maximum stimulation and in and out as fast and as hard as you can.
Where sex is all about release, instead of ENJOYING THE EXPLORATION..
Nor is orgasm a healthy goal..
Neither for women OR men.
Take your time, and develop the basics.
So that your sexual spirit is strong.
TOO SOON..
SPIRIT!!!
Bedroom eyes basic.
