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Over the last several years I have been building up my skills as a drummer, and I like to go out to these medieval events and get scantily dressed women worked up into a frenzy. I've become fairly good at it, but I have not used this skill for PUs as I would like because I have been married. Now that I'm single this is a serious advantage to me, and the skills I am learning here have helped me take it to the next level. I've worked on my drumming to the point were I can focus on a single dancer and not loose control of my drumming no matter what she might do (pretty much - there are some girls out there that really like to mess with you, and it get's really tough when they start kissing and touching each other, but that's another story). So I recently read through all David Shade's eye contact experiments, and that really helped to confirm what I was feeling about making eye contact with these dancers. Many dancers won't lock eyes with a drummer, but most will at some point when you focus on them, most drummers at this point will loose their focus and drop their eyes or mess up, but I don't, so it can become very intense. I've never used this for a PU before, until this weekend, where everything that I was feeling was confirmed.
I started my evening warming up and drumming with some of my good buddies.... The drumming was good, but the only chick there was with my buddy, so nothing happened there, and eventually I wandered off to find greener pastures. I made my way over to the other drum party at the event, and I happen to know the guy leading that circle, so I chum up to him and after they take a little break I join in with the drumming. They had been having a competition, and unfortunately after the competition a lot of the dancers left, but there were still a few girl there and it gave me a chance to open up a little bit, and do some throw away openings, since none of the chicks there I was interested in, there was HBTooOld, and a couple of chunky girls that were way to heavy for me, but I talked to them and it was funny 'cause all I think I said to TooOld was hi, and she was like honey I'm old enough to be your mother, and I laughed, and said really? I'm older than I look. (which is true I look like I'm about 22-25, but actually I'm 35). So the girls started the guessing game, which is always fun, but I didn't let any of them know how old I actually am.... Eventually again I decided I was tired with this scene, but this time I decided to bring it with me, and so I gathered them up and drummed my way to another scene with all the dancers and a couple of drummers in tow. We relocated to another party where all the real action had settled. Several more drummers, a semi-pro belly dance group of mostly HB9-10, and several other nice looking chicks. So I drummed and played the eye-contact game for a while and chit chatted with the people I had been talking with earlier to stay loose, etc. etc.
So there was one chick in the crowd that caught my eye, not above all others, but I really didn't want to work that hard to go for the HB10s, she was like a HB8-9, very hot body, great moves, but not stunningly beautiful. We had some great eye-contact while she danced where we locked eyes for a while and then she would look away. So, I almost chickened on this, which in hindsight is funny ('cause she was SOOO into me), but I left the party with a buddy, he was going to turn in and I walked back to camp with him but left my drum behind so I was forced to come back. I went to my camp and got a little liquid courage to help me get over the initial approach fear (my biggest area of weakness, I have yet to complete the newbie mission), a couple of shots of jagermeister, and went back to the party with the bottle. I wasn't really sure where I stood at this point with the three second rule as it had been maybe an hour since the initial eye-contact, but I had been busy since then so I think this is a case where it turns out to be ok, but I didn't hesitate when I went back to the party, this time I just went right up to her at said "hi", wow, I never thought it could be so easy, and I offered her a drink of the jag - jager is an interesting drink because it often provokes a strong reaction, some people dislike it for its flavor, but others for its effects. She didn't like it for it's effects having had a bad drunk on it at one point, and I made some comment about how most of my stories involving me and Jager usually end up involving sex . Laugh, Laugh, and we're talking. From here it was easy we just talked about real things, who each of us is, how we're enjoying the event, etc. etc. During the convo she admits that she was hoping I would come back as she was looking for me, and she asks if I came back looking for her to which I gave a sly nod. As we're talking I start working the kino, first a simple touch to the elbow, then a little rub, and more and more, until eventually we're comfortable with each other, touching, holding and making out. It was so incredibly simple to work the kino in, and I think very key to my success here. All in all, it went very fast. I could tell she was surprised I had chosen her, and that she thought I was out of her league, which made me feel very strong and powerful in my pickup, which was good. I'm sure part of this is looks, but part of it was certainly the confidence I projected in my actions from what I have learned here. I could tell she viewed me as a player, and so it was easy for me to fill and fit that role and become the PUA I want to be with her. At one point we also played the age game, she assumed I was younger than her, but she was wrong, she told me she was 31, and I told her I was older than her, but didn't tell her my actual age until later. She was very open about sex, which was awesome, she is into sex, knows she likes it, and knew she wanted it with me (affirmation for me, women want sex as much as men). When we got back to my camp there was no question about where things were leading. She started undressing herself first and was very eager, and I stopped her at one point so that I could be allowed to explorer her and strip her naked, as well as maintain my control. Though she was eager, she was also nervous and told me it had been 7 months since her last major relationship broke up, and I told her it had been 2 months since my breakup and connected with her and told her I was in no hurry, and just took it slow and enjoyed her completely. Her body was amazingly hot, she said she works out daily and dances all the time, and I believe it because she didn't have an ounce of fat on her, and she had a petite, little frame - and when I slipped a finger inside her, wow, so tight and tiny there I had to say something - and she told me she does daily kegels to keep that in shape too - wow, the girl was built for sex. Oh, and let's not forget, she loves to suck cock and it turns her on like nothing else - what else could I ask for... So we went at it like all night... I don't know for how long, and I'll spare some details, I was a bit distracted by alcohol, my jealous dog (which is kinda funny, I had to kick my dog out so we could get busy), and so I didn't end up getting off, but it didn't matter as I had the most incredible fun night, and I'm sure she'll try even harder next time to make up for it . With my ex I had the opposite issue, I would often get off to quickly, and I think several things changed for me in this situation (1) Drunk (2) I was in control, I think this is the big one, in the past I have often been nervous and overly excited for sex, like "OMG I'm getting SEX yeah!", and this time it was like "of course I'm getting sex, I'm the man!" definitely a good feeling and in the past I was given sex as a privilege or reward, and since learning what I'm learning here, I know sex isn't the gift she can give me, it's the gift I can give her and this change in mental attitude is very good for me. (3) I was tired and distracted.... But, anyway I took her in several positions, gave her multiples, and thoroughly enjoyed the hell out of her. Once I was too tired for more, we ended and I let her stay with me since I like to snuggle, and when we woke a short time later and she had to get headed out so she could get to work, THEN I got here number, because I definitely want some more of this girl.... Not sure what my next step is, in the past I have always sought out relationships, and I am definitely not interested in that, I know I want more sex with her, and she wants me too, but I doubt I can just call her up and say "Hey, let's fuck" so I need to work out the next step. I'm going to give it a week before I make any move, and she knows I'm only in town for three weeks so it's a limited engagement just need to figure out how to get her right into bed again without attempting anything that will lead down the road to relationship hell....
Enjoying the life!!!
So this is my first lay report, I didn't expect it to happen so soon after finding mASF, but here I am writing the report. I'm still an rAFC and have a great many challenges to overcome, but making strides in the right direction all the same. So this weekend I was at an SCA event, for those that don't know what that is, it's a medieval reenactment group that goes out camping, dressing in funny clothing, armor, beats the crap out of each other, and then gets drunk and has a huge party together.... That's kinda the gist of it anyway. So, PUs in this environment are a bit easier than just a random bar scene or party, as lots of people are out looking to hookup, and everyone is already of a like mind, and lots of alcohol is also flowing.
