There are TONS of "politically correct" dating (blech) and romance (blech
blech) resources on the Internet. This is not one of them. In this no-nonsense guide you will NOT find information on the best chocolate you
should give a girl on Valentine's day. Or how many flowers to give or what kind or color.
You will not find long discussions on where to take her on the first "date" or
how to make candlelight dinners or pick out engagement rings or crap like that. Instead,
what you will find is a flood of information, organized in succinct and clear order on how
to Locate, Approach, Attract, Seduce, and Lay as many women as you can handle with great
speed and efficiency. All kinds of women. Specifically, this guide is geared towards
getting and laying HBs (Hot Babes) although that term is subjective and it really depends
on what YOU think is hot. Either way, read this guide and learn. Your eyes will be opened
and your life will change. Contrary to many people's opinion, this guide isn't about lame gimmicks or tricks, it
is about improving yourself. It is about improving your state of mind, what you believe
you can achieve, how far you can go and how much you can learn. Portions of this guide may
offend some readers. I guess sometimes people can't take the truth if it goes against what
society has programmed into their belief system. The useful information in this guide
won't be buried in heaps of annoying psycho babble or filler. The information isn't hidden
between the lines and under some agonizing subtext. It is out in the open, clearly
exposed, and organized in such a way that you can GET the understanding. It is organized
to help you learn and take advantage of your new knowledge quickly. Some guys out there reading this right now may be thinking "But I'm too
ugly/stupid/boring/poor/weak/shy/etc to be able to take advantage of knowledge on how to
meet and attract hot babes!" Stop right there. How in the world do you ever expect to
succeed with an attitude like that? Thinking that way is a setup for failure before even
giving yourself a chance to try. Any time in the past where things didn't go your way was
NOT the result of a deficiency within yourself or have anything to do your perceived
limitations. It was the insecurities themselves, the simple idea that you believed you
could not succeed. You have nothing to fear but fear itself. Getting rid of that fear is
your first step. It is a difficult and trying step for a lot of guys, but working through
this guide will, at minimum, help you achieve that primary goal. You will soon realize that having hot, interesting, amazing women in your life is not
about "getting lucky". Luck plays no factor here. You will not read anything in
this guide about how much luck it takes to achieve anything. Rather, everything is in your
control. However, to achieve that control and to gain more and more confidence in your
abilities, it takes more than just reading this guide. You have to go out there and do
stuff. You should look at this guide as a roadmap to a pot of gold. You won't get that
gold unless you get off your ass and get in your car and DRIVE. You won't learn anything
along the way unless you stop that car often and take a look around, interact with your
environment, affect that environment, then move on back to driving towards your primary
destination. A lot of the information contained in this guide was/is gleamed mostly from the ASF
newsgroup and miscellaneous associated web sites. You will find references to people and
products (i.e. Ross Jeffries' Speed Seduction»® material and courseware) which have a
strong influence on the postings in that group. I first ran across ASF in late 1999,
while still an AFC trying to find useful information that just could not be found anywhere
else on the Internet. I wasn't looking for bullshit dating advice, I was looking for
advice on why the hell I wasn't attracting tons of women. Sure, I was a kind of
introverted (somewhat shy) guy, but I kept thinking "I have a good job, a nice house,
a nice car, am funny, smart, great guy, not too bad looking, and emotionally
balanced." So how come I wasn't getting the babes? How come I looked all around and
sometimes see guys who have much less going for them than me yet are walking around with
hot, interesting chicks and I'm "lucky" to get an occasional date with an
average, boring chick? Before running across ASF, I had remembered reading (and
printing out) some of Ross' old "Get LAID" newsletters but at that time in my
life I was so much of an AFC that I just didn't "get" the blatant clarity of the
information in those writings. It was like "That's just too damn easy and surreal -
this is BS. I'll just keep doing what I'm doing and eventually will figure all this
out." What a chump I was. And then I found ASF and it all became clear. All of a sudden, I
had an epiphany and I began to "get" it. Now all I had to do was go out and
actually do what all these guys were talking about. An AFC first coming across ASF will
think "This is all just too weird and surreal- how in the world does a guy get hot
babes following these absurd methods? Chicks will get pissed off. I will get slapped. I've
seen it happen all the time on TV or in movies. I will get laughed at. It's all tricks. It
doesn't make sense. It's confusing. I can't remember all this. etc." But somehow I
felt there was something more. So, being the geek that I am, I started archiving all the
posts and then one day decided to suck down and archive every post ever made to ASF in one
big database. Then I made it searchable and let
other people use it. Then I decided that I needed wingmen to help me PU (until I was
comfortable on my own) and created PAIR. Then I noticed
that a lot of ASF newbies were posting the same damn questions over-and-over and I
revamped the group's FAQ which I make sure is posted
regularly. Then, in the middle of 2000 I got caught up with work and didn't get much
chance at all to keep my momentum going. But ASF still drew my attention and,
towards the end of last year, I hooked up with a couple of great wingmen and have been
improving my game dramatically since then. I present this guide and all it's features (as well as the whole site) as my gift to
the world. Specifically, I want it to reach all those AFCs out there who are just like I
was most of my life until recently. I want them to have the information that will help
them succeed with the kinds of women they are interested in and not have to settle for any
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