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A more advanced aspect of patterning is anchoring. Anchoring is an application of
Pavlov's reflex in NLP (and also in Speed Seduction»). A Pavlov's reflex is a conditioned
reflex first explored and introduced by Russian scientist Pavlov. The core of his
experiment was as follows - he rang a bell, gave a dog some food, the dog saw and smelled
the food and started salivating. After a few times of repeating the process of ringing a
bell, offering food and getting the dog to salivate, he eliminated the offering of food
from the process. He just rang the bell and… the dog started salivating. By always
ringing a bell while offering food, he had created a conditioned reflex in the test
subject, which in this case was causing salivation by simply ringing the bell. The same conditioned reflex can be created in a girl - this is called anchoring. In
patterning this means, that every time you see the girl light up with delight, smile,
laugh or just feel damn good because of the wonderful feelings you are creating in her
with your patterns, you touch her in a specific place (the shoulder, elbow, inside of her
arm) thus planting an anchor (the ringing of the bell while offering food:), while saying
something "it's a great feeling, isn't it?" to mask your touch. Let's say you've touched her elbow each time you've made her feel especially good three
times already. If you now touch that very same spot on her elbow the same way you touched
it on three previous occasions (applying the same amount of pressure etc.), she suddenly
and unexpectedly has all those wonderful feelings, that were there when you planted the
anchor, rush back to her without you having done anything else but touch her elbow (in
other words: you just rang the bell without offering food, and she started to salivate:).
If you're really good, you can plant different anchors for different feelings all over her
body - an anchor of laughter on her shoulder, an anchor of excitement on her elbow, an
anchor of feeling romantic on back of her hand and an anchor of feeling horny… on her
knee:). Furthermore, anchoring is not confined to touching alone - you can also use the tone of
your voice, some specific words (whisper "oh yes do it!" in her ear a few times
when she orgasms, then whisper those same words in her ear when being on some fancy
reception and watch her turn red from a wave of passionate heat and lust. You don't even
have to hide anything, she can recognise those words as "familiar" but she still
can't help herself:). It is however important not to overuse the anchors you have planted or she will
eventually become insensitive to them. Ring a bell ten times without offering food and the
dog will eventually stop salivating when hearing the bell ring. The most practical use of anchoring is probably being able the keep a girl on a
constant high when she's with you. Evoke positive feelings, and whilst she's experiencing
them, anchor those feelings. But even the best PUA-s cannot keep evoking good feelings in
a girl on a continuous basis, sooner or later, for whatever reason (she might be tired,
have some worries, whatever), her mood will drop. That's where the feelings you have
anchored come handy. Fire off an anchor (if you anchored laughter and fun to her shoulder,
touch her shoulder) and she's happy again:) With no excess effort on your part:) |  |
