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Time distortion is having her think about a time in the future and her feelings for a
special somebody "say six months from now" (see "Falling in Love"
pattern). If you've done a good enough job, that hypothetical special somebody in her
imagination will be you! She feels safe and secure with that as it is only her fantasy,
just a thought, and nobody knows about it. Or at least that's what she thinks:) But even if she doesn't imagine you as her special somebody, it doesn't matter. The
object of time distortion is to have her imagine you and her six months from now, not even
necessarily as lovers, just have her experience the thought of having known you for six
months already. And before she knows it, she feels much more safe and secure with you, as
if she has known you for a long time already (like... say... six months?:). ASF: "It's really pretty simple. You just make up some bullshit fantasy that takes
place in the future involving you and her and explain it to her. By the time you #close,
it's almost ridiculous because she FEELS LIKE she has known you for so long already
because you have taken her mentally to the future and in order to understand that she has
to IMAGINE KNOWING YOU FOR MONTHS. She has imagined that you are good friends and like
each other and travel together etc. You should see the looks on their faces when you say
"so what's your number?", they can't believe how close they feel to you and you
don't even have their number:)" Example of a time distortion story (taken from "Sweep women off their
feet..."): "There was this girl I met over the Internet who would only respond once in a
while, making me wait as long as two weeks for a reply if any at all. At one point I
decided to put a stop to it. I wrote her the following little story: "I know that right now it's hard for anyone to recognize when they meet the person
they want to share their lives with, especially with the overload of information and male
congestion on the Internet. But sometimes I think that Mother Nature provides food for
every little bird in this world but that doesn't mean it will drop it in its nest. People
are the same way. There is someone out there for every one of us, but we still have to go
out there and find him or her. With that in mind I cannot help but look into the future and see a young woman asking
her grandmother for advice in the matters of the heart. You look at your grand daughter
with love in your eyes, speaking in a kind voice, recalling moments from your youth when
you weren't sure whether your heart was melting for the right man. Then you smile and tell
her to trust her heart even if her mind says no, because there was a time when a young man
was desperately trying to get your attention but for some reason he could not find his way
into your heart. Just before you decided to put an end to his misery he wrote one
compelling letter straight from his heart and that's when you knew he was the man who
deserved your love. Your mind was still not convinced but you decided to let things happen
at least for the sake of finding out for sure. Though it wasn't immediate, your heart and
mind surrendered to the power of love. Had I given up at first we wouldn't be here talking
about matters of the heart my dear girl, for that young man was none other but your grand
daddy." That one email alone made her not want to miss out on such a perfect future." See also:
Falling in Love pattern
Bullshit fantasies
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