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Your Looks DO Matter
by Giuseppe Notte
of All About Women
July 16th, 2006
The truth lies somewhere in between.
I'm sure you've seen a model-looking guy with a hot woman and thought that she must have only been with him because of his looks. On the contrary, you might have also seen butt-ugly guys with hot girls, which left you wondering. To understand the situation better, let's talk about the details of your first interaction with a girl.
As psychologists say, people form a firm opinion about you within the first 30 seconds or 1 minute of meeting you. This is especially true of women. How can you make a good impression on people? With your looks and attitude (body language», eye contact, choice of words and so on).
And here comes the most protected dirty little secret of seduction gurus:
When a woman checks you out, she doesn't look at your face. She looks at your shoes to check whether they're polished or not. She looks at your nails to see if they're long or dirty. She looks at your clothes to see whether they're clean or not, how they go with your image/personality and what they communicate. Having a style that is consistent with your personality is one of the most important things you can do to make a good impression on a woman.
You're a man, and you look at a girl's breasts. You also check out her ass and see if she has a baby face. But women always look at the big picture and the way you come off from the first second of meeting you. A woman imagines herself with you and thinks about what people would say about her if she went out with you.
Women are self-validation junkies. They are constantly looking for the approval of other people, and you will be a piece of this puzzle as well. Girls don't want a man at their side if he doesn't know how to look or behave.
Thus, the first step toward improving your success is fixing your looks.
You might say that your looks are something you can't change. This is dead wrong. You don't need plastic surgery to improve your looks by at least 2 points on a scale of 1 to 10. All you need is to be neat, to be tidy and to have some style.
If you have acne on your face, get the proper treatment. If your hair is greasy and long, wash it and get a cool haircut. If you dress like a nerd, go to the local shopping mall and get some new clothes. You don't have to spend a million bucks on clothes. Style doesn't mean dressing expensively — it means dressing fashionably. If you're too thin, put on some muscle. If you're fat, go on a diet.
Do you catch what I'm saying? Just by taking care of yourself a bit, you can leave a much better impression on women and other people you interact with.
To summarize it, your looks matter as long as you don't care about it. As soon as you get that handled, girls won't care whether you look like Brad Pitt or not — as long as you have the proper attitude, of course. And that's what I'll be talking about in my next article. Stay tuned.
And if you can't wait or just don't want to wait, check out my e-book, All About Women. It's packed with up-to- date information on each step of getting the girls you crave. I also share even more tips on improving your looks!
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