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The Eyes Have It
by Playboy
of Cutting Edge Image Consultants
February 7th, 2006
If you really want to increase your communication skills take note, this is pretty important stuff I am about to cover.
This is going to amount to some basic rules for eye contact when talking to women.
First of all, if you are on a date with a woman, don’t let her catch you checking out the other women in the restaurant/bar/lounge or wherever you are. This is tacky, and it tells her that you are on the prowl. This is a horrible impression to give someone that you are interested in dating.
A few years ago, I made this mistake, and I never heard from the girl again – that’s right – no calls, no emails, no text messaging, nothing. This girl was looking for a serious relationship, and she could tell that there was nothing serious about me…
If you are looking to build healthy relationships with women (which is why I hope you are here), learn to curb your primal instinct to play tag with all the girls in the room and focus your energy on the one in front of you.
Also, if you are talking with each other, look her in the eye. You want this to be natural, so don’t become weird and stare at her – she’ll start to think you’re a stalker. Be sure to relax, but start today by training yourself to look others in the eye when you are communicating with them.
It helps you come across as someone with presence, who is confident and strong, and as someone who is to be taken seriously.
Take a look at it from the simplest perspective for a minute.
If you are trying to build healthy relationships with people, you are essentially trying to connect with them. In order to connect with people you have to take them in, while also allowing yourself to be seen and understood. Pretty simple, right?
By looking people in the eye, you communicate to them that you are open to relating with them. This takes confidence and presence.
So, begin today by taking note of when and how much eye contact you make with others. You might be surprised how much your gaze wanders. Make it a point to practice this so that it develops into a habit.
Also, notice how other people’s eye contact affects you. Isn’t it true that those who are able to maintain powerful eye contact gain more of our respect?
Get this area handled guys. This is a simple, yet challenging shortcoming that most guys have. If you want to build healthy relationships with others, you need to take yourself seriously.
By looking people in the eye, and focusing on the interaction in front of you – you make a huge leap in that direction.
Playboy
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