mASF post by "spirit"
posted on: mASF forum: General Discussion newsgroup, April 4, 2005
<FireBoy> wrote in message news:[email protected]...
> On 4/6/05 8:48:23 PM, spirit wrote:
>>Think about it, even think
>>about it like pu-ing a HOT
>>girl...
>>
>>You wouldn't tell a supermodel
>>how gorgeous she was would
>>you? why not -
>>because they get hundreds of
>>comments like that every day.
>>If a guy is a PUA it can be
>>pretty much the same - alot of
>>guys all wanting
>>something from you!
>>
>
> I don't think so buddy. I'm registered on PAIR and for a while it was as
> a
> PUA. Then I reconsidered my skill level and brought it back to RAFC or
> GPUA.
> whatever
I'm not just talking about PAIR - I'm talking about real life, about this
and other forums, lairs, MSN... You might not think so, so I'm telling
you how it is for me.
>>So out of all the emails
>>received essentially asking
>>the same thing - what
>>makes yours 'special'? What
>>will make them want to reply?
>>Why are you any
>>different from everyone else
>>that tries to get in touch?
>
> I've talked with a few guys affilliated with this site. EVERYONE here is
> for
> the same goal. I've never talked with or met anyone who wasn't ready to go
> out
> of their way to help. How many people from here have you actually met
> anyway?
Dude, isn't this saying the same thing that I mention right below this
paragraph?! Yes, people are willing to go out of their way to help - just
not all the time and on demand for yet another newbie who wants to be
spoonfed.
As to how many people I've met from this site, relatively few in the grand
scheme of things. Just spent a day/night out on Tuesday with a guy who drove
up from Nottingham (I'm UK based) Caught up with some of the guys at the
recent-ish Manchester meet as part of Darren and Magnus road trip - who as
I've said before are welcome to sort out another visit anytime... and so
on...
Now if you want me to go back and list every guy & girl from wherever and
whichever site, bar, club I've met or chatted at length to about 'game' and
helped then it'll add up to well over 300/400ish - so don't try telling me
that it doesn't have some impact on your life and that choices have to be
made to what level of help can be offered at a given time, especially when
it's FREE...
>>
>>Most, if not all, of the other
>>guys with real ability are
>>often some of the
>>most accomodating and friendly
>>people I've come across - yet
>>there's only so
>>many hours in a day!
>>
>
> Riigght. So that means 50 emails sent with no reply. Doesn't add up
So people didn't reply - boo fucking hoo! For every guy like you who seems
to expect someone to write back just because you wrote, there's another guy
who probably took a little more time, thought and effort over that mail who
got some feedback...
Intuit also put it very well, and pointed out that many people on their have
forgotten or don't care about their PAIR accounts - I only get mails from
there because I haven't changed my email address since the 5 years or so ago
when I first registered...
Even with MSN... when I stopped posting as regularly I was still getting
people adding me to chat, I'd log on and have windows popping up every
minute with someone I hadn't heard from wanting to ask/talk about pick up
stuff...
>>It's not rocket science - if
>>you want something, perhaps
>>try offering
>>something in return... It
>>might not have to be PU
>>related - do you have
>>some skill that might be of
>>value to them?
>
> I don't get that mentality from the vibe around here
Dude, you don't have to get that vibe from round here as it's pervasive
through most of society.
At the very least if your place is in an area that people, pua's might want
to visit - simply offering floorspace in return for a little of their time
might swing it...
> Again from what I've seen its about the city. type in the zip code of a
> large
> city and email those guys and you'll probably find some active members.
Well, good luck to ya!
Spirit
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