mASF post by "Neo"
posted on: USENet: alt.seduction.fast newsgroup, September 9, 2002sco***m@ho***.com[ ? ] (valued customer) wrote in message news:<1b3***c@po***.com[ ? ]>...
> Consider this.
>
> I was at the bookstore today, reading some magazines, and I noticed a
> lovely young woman out of the corner of my eye. Casual observation of
> her movement and actions seemed to indicate she was there alone, and
> not particularly focused on book shopping. No big deal, some people
> just like to glance and people-watch, so I go back to reading the
> magazine.
>
> To my surprise, the woman then approaches me, excusing herself for the
> interruption (which I didn't mind at all) and she gave me a very
> engaging compliment on my looks. It has been a while since a random
> stranger walked up to me just to say such a thing, so I was flattered.
> Ironically, I was also surprised to identify some of the 'tactics of
> her approach' that I had come across in places like this newsgroup.
>
> Which brings me to my point.
>
> Personally, I am not a big fan of "seduction" type thinking. I know
> these seduction tips are meaningful to some folks, so I mean no
> disrespect, but because of my focusing on the various subelements of
> the episode, I found myself *over-analyzing* the situation ... to my
> detriment. All because I had forgotten what I began with ... before I
> even knew about the stuff that is in these newsgroups:
>
> Life is what it is, don't take yourself so seriously, there's more to
> it than just seducing and being seduced. Stand firm on the foundation
> of what makes life meaningful and worthwhile for you, and build from
> there.
>
> So anyway here I am, remembering how much fun it is simply to talk to
> someone because you enjoy life, and the people you share it with while
> it lasts.
I respect where you're coming from when "all is well" in the world.
And that
includes talking to women or communicating with strangers. But I'm
also a cynic
when it comes to being with women, expressing desire and getting what
I get as
a result. For some, using seduction methods is a means to an end just
as much as much "being yourself." There are no guarantees that
seduction methods work but that doesn't mean that it doesn't have
usefulness. For me, it enhances my communication and conversation
skills (which also increases my confidence & perception amongst
women).
About what you said about "overanalyzing the situation..." I admit
that I have been there/done that many times. But after many
experiences, the "analysis and calculating" becomes second nature to
where if you want to apply a pattern or something you learned to see
if you can generate a response/state here and there, then its OK. But
then again, if you don't want to do that, you don't have to. Many
cases, with me, all I have to do (depending on the circumstance)is be
engaging, funny & confident. But like I said, the methods also
enhance that. And I don't think that takes anything away from just
talking to someone or trying to pick em up.
Just my 2 cents.
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