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Haven't posted an LR for the last several girls I've closed, but I thought this particular seduction had some awesome social dynamics I wanted to share with you guys -- building social proof starting from nothing. ...and hey, everyone wants to know how to seduce the bartender.
DAY 1 - Begin by walking into a random Lower East Side bar that I had never been to before on a Sunday night with one of my guy friends. Maybe 4 customers in the whole bar, plus HB9Bartender, who was my target. One of the customers, HB8.5DogChick had a dog with her -- the same breed of dog I had while growing up -- so after ordering a beer I started my rapport building with the dog.
HB8.5DogChick quickly notices that her dog likes me, and I have it in with her now. A little teasing, a little storytelling, and HB8.5DogChick is giving me amazing IOIs. HB8.5DogChick also happens to be friends with the HB9Bartender, who quickly notices that her friend likes me. IOIs from HB9Bartender start coming at me.
HB8.5DogChick goes home, and HB9Bartender engages me in conversation. The other bartender for this bar, HB8OtherBT walks in (as a customer, this night) and sees HB9Bartender giving me IOIs. HB8OtherBT is fiesty and starts giving me shit tests, basically trying to see if she can prove herself better than me by tooling on me. I throw her tooling right back at her, and I'm in with HB8OtherBT. HB9Bartender sees that I've now succeeded in attracting 2 of her friends. HB8OtherBT sees that I passed her shit tests and I have HB9Bartender wanting me.
The girls begin competing for me, each in their own way. HB9Bartender tries to build rapport in the same way an AFC guy would approach a girl. HB8OtherBT continues kino escalation and insists on a massage. Add in DHV stories from me. I decide to leave while they're both working at me. They're bartenders after all; I know I can see them again.
DAY 2 - I walk in the next night, and HB8OtherBT is behind the bar. She comes out and gives me what might be the bet hug I've ever had. Apparently the night before worked quite well. More flirty play, another massage (both of us, this time), dancing, and at one point I picked her up off her feet and offered her for sale to a customer. She number closes me at the end of the night. I bite her ear and tell her goodbye.
DAY 3 - The next time I walk in, a couple days later, HB8OtherBT is bartending again. Bar is pretty empty and she's entertaining herself with some kind of little craftsy jewelry making. She makes me a braclet. Huge IOI, especially since the braclet was fastened on to me permanently (no clasp), as if she were tagging me as hers. Hugs, massages, etc.
DAY 4 - Friday night, bar is packed. HB8OtherBT is again bartending, but HB9Bartender is there as a customer. She's with some guy who has her arm around her. She sees me, I walk over and give her a hug, ignoring the presence of the guy completely. We chat a bit, then HB8OtherBT sees me and insists on more hugs. (Lots of hugs... the name "Affection" didn't get to me without cause. ). More fun flirty play with all.
DAY 5 - Sunday, one week later. HB9Bartender is there, and the bar is almost empty. Fluctuates between just me and up to 5 customers at a time. We make plans to get food after closing. 4:00 AM comes along, and there's 2 additional customers in the bar that want to come with us. She tells me the plan: she'll tell them she's getting a taxi and going home, and I wait around for her. Works like a charm.
We wander to food. Conversation is perfect, talking about great escalation topics like spontaneity, our most romantic dates, and DHV stories about previous relationships. We finish eating and I suggest wandering through the park across the street. First kiss. It's a bit cold out, so we begin to plot escalation logistics. We both live a few miles away, but I leave my car parked in the same neighborhood (yes, for all you non-NYC people, parking sucks and it's reasonable to park your car a subway ride away from home ). I suggest it might be a good place to continue our makeout session. She agrees, and the clothes fly off.
The key in this sarge is the social proof building. It started with getting a dog to like me. Then it moved to her friend, then to the target, who unknowingly got me the social proof required to attract HB8OtherBT, whose attraction to me served only to mae HB9Bartender even more attracted. Going in small progressions from easier targets (the dog) to hot targets is always preferable to going straight for the target. We learn this in group theory -- that you start with the obstacles and move towards the target -- but a bartender has no "group" other than her customers, so things have to begin there.
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~~Affection
~~Project Manhattan PUA, Inc.
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