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It's been a while but wanted to get back for a LR with a chick I've been fucking/"dating" for a few weeks.
About this girl: tall, Chinese, beautiful, classy and brilliant (call her HBC). Shy, self-described very LSE when younger but coming out of her shell (she's 25).
Two lessons on this LR:
1- Set the tone for the relationship right away- screening frame. Saves you so much bullshit and you reap constant rewards.
2- Be smart about LMR: look for signs that it's token resistance, or other issues you haven't thought about. Be patient and keep pushing, and keep practicing to get a feel for when you can push.
I met HBC through a common friend- she picked me up to go to this friend's party- and right away I set the tone by playfully busting on her for getting lost and being late for the pickup. Can't emphasize how impt it is to set the tone right away! Huge lesson learned through my de-AFC-ing process over the past 9 months. I have been able to avoid being labeled a "nice guy"- which is huge for me. One time she even explicitly framed me as a "bad boy", when mentioning how her friend was looking for a "nice guy unlike me" to date.
HBC is a bit distant and standoffish. I don't think I would have been able to handle her even a yea ago. I would have misread everything. Being with her has made me realize how much I've learned through mASF.
SO...the LR.
Cutting to the chase. I go out with this other chick I wanna bang- pint size biracial chick with perfect body- and I'm at the movies with her when I get a call from HBC. I had been putting off HBC lately because she was getting a little haughty and needed a cold shoulder from me. She could get the whiff of competition when I mention that I'm at the movies with a friend and I refer to her as "her". I tell her the movie's starting and I quickly hang up.
After dumping off HB pint-size, I call HBC. She asks me what the plan is and I know it's on.
I live on the ground floor so we call my place the basement or dungeon. She professes to hate it but I think she likes the subterranean vibe. She comes over straight from a workout. She's wearing sweatpants with a single thin line down the side (which turn me on like crazy but she doesn't know it). I also notice she's wearing matching underwear.
I was unbelievably tired because the night before I had been up all night - no sleep at all- for work (still paying for it). We roll around for a while. She says she wants to go home, has to get up early, etc. Making out, really nice. But I want more and I'm cavemanning her with her clothes on. I notice she has some sexy underwear on- so big sign that she's in slut mode. BUT, she needs to go.
New fave routine for this has cemented into place. Continue as usual and let go a bit, and go back. If she's really into it and just a little conflicted it's a shit test and you pass by letting go a bit and then coming for more. This is well-known so nothing new- just putting another one in the win column for this mindset.
CRUCIAL MOMENT.... So I'm pushing it further- trying to get her sweatpants off, etc. and she says no. So we talk for a minute and relax. Let me just say that this was ONE of the most, if not THE most, striking examples of 1) how DEAD ON so much of the field tested info you read from ASF is, and 2) how cultural differences in PU are pretty slight. Like some of the other guys on here (like jet set Jim), I'm an expert at this point on chicks from other countries and cultures- so far chicks from about 15 different countries and all major racial groups.
SO here it is.
HBC: I didn't want to come over here just for sex and then leave.
CK: What you mean is that that's exactly what you wanted to do- come over and fuck only- but you felt guilty about it because you didn't want to seem like a slut.
HBC: Wow, yeah- exactly. Thanks....
So, more cuddling or whatever and she initiates making out, aggressive. More and more, she's horny, climbing on top of me. She she stops and half jokingly says she has to leave. She's hovering over me on all fours to my left side. I kiss her hard and then grab her ass. Almost accidentally in the heat of the moment I pull her pants halfway down her ass and she says "hey!" but gives up v. little resistance. I feel her pussy and it's wet as hell. Clothes off and immediately, explosively into very hot sex. No resistance at all. I'm starting to love this kind of fuck-buddy LMR!
SO a longer than expected LR but I wanted to show how your value as a man goes through the roof with girls when you UNDERSTAND their Madonna whore complex . I think it's one of the top 3 concepts to understand in this entire game. It's been said before but I'll say it again myself: you have to structure opportunities for the girl to be the nasty cum-slut she longs to be.
CK
"Success is going from failure to failure without a loss of enthusiasm."
-Churchill
