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I've been asking myself certain questions.
"If i was a girl, would i want to meet myself??"
Dont get a visual please.
I'm not talking about shiny tactics, i'm talking about, if you were alone with a girl, what inner blood and guts would you convey to her??
The core of who you are, what makes you tick, the depth of character.
In order to do that, i can't just have surface veneer tactics to pickup women.
Sure, i can roll upto chicks and make them giggle, but when the dust settles, its the depth of character that people remember.
Who IS that guy?? What does he stand for???
Figure out what you stand for, what you want to stand for, what you want out of life, what you can offer to women and the world.
It sustains when women dont call you back, and when you have a rough night at the clubs. It sustains when you have a dry spell and dont get laid for awhile.
Are you the type of person you would hangout with??
Can you be comfortable just sitting there silently, looking into her eyes, and allowing her to scan your inner workings?
What will she see?
Will she see a scared little boy? Or will she see a strong, confident, purposeful man??
If you were an exceptional woman and human being, would you want to be with yourself??
"If i was a girl, would i want to hangout with myself??"
"If i was a girl, would i want to FUCK myself??"
Uh.
Honestly though, its so important to appreciate your own value, on a real level.
This stuff is really important, especially after you've learned some "shiny" tactics, and realize that shiny tactics are nice surface gloss, but when you hangout with people, its about whats beneath the surface that matters.
My current goal is to have 3 exceptional girlfriends, who i can spend time with, laugh with, play with, have decadant times with, who compliment my vibe and personality, and who can add some beautiful color to the blank canvas of life.
I would enourage you guys to think about it.
Figure out who you are, who you want to be, and how to fill that gap.
This stuff is deep rooted CORE CONFIDENCE.
WHO YOU ARE as person, as a spirit, is so fucking important.
Dont get me wrong, the shiny special sause is fun, its fun teasing girls, its fun having shiny lines, and the occasional shiny routine, thats part of the process too,
But when the dust clears, and its you and the girl, do you know who you are??
Just some food for thought.
Happy Sunday,
