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These are not actually rules at all. They consist of valuable lessons that helped me push past my sticking points. They also have a few moral guidelines that I follow when I comes to picking up women. These help me sleep at night, but also actually help me get laid too. Feel free to simply read the title of each, for the most part this is all experienced guys will need to understand the rule.
Lets start from the Top of the list
1.Be honest, Don't Lie
Lying has never helped me get laid. I don't mean a white lie like “My thirty other GFs won't like you.” I mean lies, or miss leading a girl into thinking something exist when it doesn't. I don't lead women into thinking they could have a relationship with me. I don't want one. If they want one, then they have to accept the fact that I fuck other women. I have actually seen guys lie about what they have. We all know women aren't impressed by money, and that is an expensive lie to try and keep up. Think about the guy that cheats, eventually he is going to lose his girl to that. I don't lie. I am honest, and up front. I will sleep with other women. Deal, or get you dick somewhere else. This rule general applies to my EFA. I have actually said to many women, “Rule number one is Be honest.” I don't usually tell them the rest.
2.Always leave a girl better than you found her.
This rule is self explanatory. I try very hard to be a positive force in the lives of those I encounter. I know there are some people I have wronged in my life, and I am trying to stop that. This is the last of my ethical Rules.
3.Logistics seperate Masters and Amateurs.
This was one of the most important things I ever learned. NVP taught me it. There is no point in trying to bring a girl home, if your roommates mom is there that weekend. You can play the game perfectly, but if you don't have a way to get her from the club to your place, you are fucked. Have logistics in place. Think of and instant date ahead of time. Think of a future pace ahead of time. Think of an Extraction plan ahead of time. With out these ready you will have to think to long, and may miss the only chance you get to pull the trigger.
4.It is very hard to say no while laughing
I am a funny guy. Thats what I hear at least. I make women laugh. That is the only think I DHV with. Sure its not how I get laid, but its hard to be cracking up for ten minutes and not give me your number. I am really trying to tone down the Cocky in my cocky funny. Spartan is calling it Witty Funny. I do a lot of stuff with comedy through role reversal at the moment. Make them laugh so hard their pants fall off.
5.Don't shit where you eat,
The next job I made out with a cute young redhead on the first day. This made things at worked stressed ever since that. So it gets a double mention since I couldn't seem to learn my lesson.
7.Your wing is THE MAN
I have forgotten how many times I have seen guys tool each other in front of women. How stupid and chilish is this. “Maybe if I make him look like a loser, I won't look as bad.” Stupid LSE behavior. I hate this. I have actually lost a set because of this one time. My wing tooled me while I was in a changing room. (you know who you are) He was nervous and didn't know how to handle the situation. He's cool. You are both cooler because you hang out with each other. Don't tool your friends ever. Its stupid. If you really think they suck, then find some friends you actually like. I just think its stupid. I don't get into the petty little back handed put down competitions. You shouldn't. You and your boys should not make each other look bad. You should not block each other by going after the same girl. You should be helping each other.
8.You can't get laid if you don't approach
9.Escalation is Attractive.
I believe this rule came from something I saw 60 write. Escalation is the only thing that separates friend from fuck buddy. Hitori wrote in the Playette's board recently, that the all you had to do to get a guy was, “Get him alone, and start touching him.” This applies to women to. Get them alone. Escalate. This works with whores, and virgins. Mom's and daughters. Trust me when I say this, because I have done it to them. Escalate. If I am on a Day 2 with a girl and have not had sex there are only two possible reasons. Logistics, and Escalation. Eliminating those two problems from my game have improved it a hundred times. Escalate. Seriously, when I run out of things to stay, I just shut up, and keep touching her.
10.Watch what she does, ignore what she says.
Earlier this month a girl told me, “I hate you,”, “You're a whore,” and my favorite “No one will ever love you.” She is a virgin that is waiting until she is married. About two days later, I was sucking on tits no one else had ever seen. I decide not to have sex with her, because I felt like it would cause problems in my social circle. (and a bunch of other reasons I don't want to get into) In all honesty though I have lost track of the girls that say they hate me while making out with me. I have had a girl tell me she was not going to have sex with me, while grinding her wet vagina into my leg. I have had a girl tell me she didn't kiss guys she just met. She wasn't even wearing underwear. Ignore what she say, her actions betray her intentions and desires.
These are of course not the only thing that are important. By no means are some of them so important that ignoring them will hurt you when it comes to getting laid. These are just my Ten Rules. They got added like this Chronilogically. So it does not matter that much.
I have something I refer to as my Ten rules of PU.
6.Remember rule number five
I got fired in May from a job serving at a Restaurant. The reason I got fired was because I shat where I ate. I worked the section that was next to the hostess stand. They hire those girls because they are hot, and to be frank I get bored. So what does a bored PUA do when left alone with a hot girl? Thats right I gamed her. I must admit I did a damn good job. Then I did it again, and then again. Thats right, I made out with every single girl that worked the host stand. It was stupid, and I did not think it through. So one day I get a phone call. They tell me that I am not supposed to come back to work ever again. I ask why. Eventually I manage to drag out of the guy the reason. I had been worried about sexual harassment. I had to good a job. The girls had talked to each other about me, and a fight broke out during shift change. This was blamed on me. So I am no longer welcome in that establishment. Needless to say, I decided not to call any of those girls.
I wish I had ball when I was younger. This is the single most important thing that guys get over. If you do not approach you lose. You don't lose less, you lose more. You might as well not even have a penis. You certainly did not try to use it, so what is the point. Line up to have your ball detached. Seriously, that cute girl that is across the room is just looking for something interesting to do. Talking to you sure as hell beast studying, drinking coffee alone, or staring at cloths while deciding what size she thinks she can squeeze into. Go talk to her. The worst that can happen is she ignores you. Even if she does, at least you tried, you don't have to have to “what ifs” keeping you up all night. Go talk to her. NOW
