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Guys, interacting with women should be FUN! If you're not having
fun, why are you doing it?
Yes, it's important to get this part of your life handled. Just like it's
important to eat well, exercise, have good work to do, and so on.
But what a drag eating, exercising and working is if we're not
enjoying what we're doing!
I always try to keep my interactions with women light and playful.
Unless she is my bank manager... but even then!
When you first meet a woman and she likes you, you will notice she
will often try to steer you into rapport or serious type conversation.
This could very well be an IOI! That's the way I take it anyway. The
reason is because you can arouse a woman very quickly, and while
she loves that feeling, she may not feel totally safe with you or with
what's happening to her. That's why some students have noticed that
there is usually a rapport component to successful pickups.
Here's what I am doing as a mission this week to completely avoid
ANY serious conversation. My goal is to not have ANY deep rapport
in the traditional sense, but still provide comfort, and escalate all
the way to hot sex....
If she asks me a question about my family, I will IGNORE the question,
but... and this is key... I will respond with something charming or a
compliment. Some examples, most of which I've already used this week:
HB: So Joseph how many brothers and sisters do you have?
HB: So what do you do Joseph?
HB: What do you think about the economic crisis?
HB: I am mad at you! You were supposed to call me!
POUR ON THE CHARM!
J: You know... I am just really admiring that dress you're wearing, that's
really hot!
J (pause, deep EC): I love beautiful women (subcomm: you're beautiful)
J: Why do you like/love me so much?
J: Look, come here and give me a kiss and all will be forgiven
HB: NO! I am mad at YOU!
J: Come to daddy, it's ok, I ain't mad atcha! C'mere, gimme a kiss, I forgive you
