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Creativity, Belief, and Closing. Creativity is the ability to think ahead, to create opportunity.
A creative pua never wonders what to say next, what to do next. You just DO. It’s a difficult concept to teach, because it must come from within, and learned with experience.
With my students I use a game called, “Free Association.” I’ll give them a subject like, “toilets,” and have them talk about it. Then, I’ll cut them off with another subject, like, “airplanes,”…..etc.
“Have you ever seen those crazy Japanese toilets? They heat the seat, and they make cool noises to cover up the bad sounds.”
“Airplanes.”
“I was flying to Montreal once, and we hit this crazy lightning storm, I was a bit scared, but the flirty flight attendant comforted me with Rye.”
Then I show how to drive any subject to elicit the girl’s values. And then how to turn any subject into a sexual topic.
Creativity is a muscle. In this digital age, where information is on demand: Tivo, Internet, video games, streaming porn….we rarely use this skill. Practice it.
Belief. When I’m out sarging, I believe in myself. It’s not a fake it till you make it concept. I know I’m the shit, because I’ve succeeded in the past. I don’t need to try to be cool….I am cool. I’m happy for the people that get to meet me, because I make their life better. I’m sexy, confident, and skilled. I don’t think about belief, I simply am. I’ve put in the work. Go out, put in the work.
Closing is about opportunity. If she’s on my lap with her tongue in my mouth, I’m not going to ask for her number, I’m going to bring her home. “Let’s go for a walk…..Taxi!” I make things happen. If no opportunity exists, I create one.
I don’t take no for an answer. If she flakes on a day 2 because she’s tired, I get her address and go to her place. If she can’t leave her friends, I meet them, seduce them, maybe even invite them along. I move forward towards my goal. I don’t let her out of my sphere of influence.
Learn to close with belief and creativity--leave the world of the approach artist behind.
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