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If you want to skip to the good part, bounce down to the section titled "Fourth place I went".
Thursday, I wanted to go out, but fell asleep.
Friday, I was with the social circle and only did a handful of approaches.
Saturday, V-day, I went out but most of my best interactions were with girls whose big ripped boyfriends were momentarily away and would conveniently reappear.
At the end of the evening, I was a good samaritan and gave a drunk couple that was having trouble finding a cab (very common on a Saturday night in that part of town) a ride back to their place. As no good deed goes unpunished, the chick ended up puking out my window (a little in my car, too).
I tried not to get upset, but did mumble to myself that karma really owed me, and I'd prefer payment in the form of a really drunken slut.
Sunday night: I had a lair meeting, but no one else wanted to go divebarring with me. I figured it would be a good time to take advantage of Rebound Day (TM Gunwitch ?).
I had a very specific thing I wanted in mind: drunk, desperate, pissed lone wolf.
First place I went: actually, too crowded. It was a karaoke night, and nowhere to sit. Left quickly.
Second place I went: Was supposed to have a "singles night" upstairs for a ridiculous cover. I just stayed downstairs because it looked like the upstairs wouldn't be worth it. Only women there were two women talking with each other. Not really what I was looking for at the moment, so I decided to go down the street.
Third place I didn't actually go to: Probably the biggest dive bar in the area. But it was closed! Cute rockerish blonde was trying to go in around the exact same time. I talk with her, and have her follow me to a similar place just next door. She calls her friends to find them, and soon leaves though. No real good opening opportunities around here, though. I did re-meet a guy I suspect of being something of a natural. Had some fun talking to him about random shit. Based on his behavior, and the attitude of a guy I met at the lair meeting who actually seems like he regularly gets laid, I am getting a slightly better picture of the natural's mindset. Left when I decided there would be nothing worth my time in this joint.
Fourth place I went: Front of the place looked unpromising.
As I was going to the backroom, I had to ask this short woman to let me through. As I looked around, I got the feeling this was exactly the sort of dive I'd been searching for all night.
Later, as I was getting a beer, she plopped next to me and asked me if I had any gum. She was pretty drunk, but also a very interesting woman (she was using fairly patterny language on me). I got the vibe this was a good SNL opportunity. My big mistake, I think, is not making a strong sexual SOI while the going was good. Foolishly, this interaction fell apart when the girl tried to pull some random guy standing behind me into the interaction by insisting he was my friend/with me, and she could 'just tell' (i.e. she's trying to cold read the situation). I tried to play along, and insist he was my brother (we're obviously not related) and trying to take this too far killed the interaction.
I opened one girl on the big clip in her hair, but she ejected quickly.
As I was hanging out near the tables close to the pool tables, I make strong EC with a very skinny blonde woman, and she says hi to me. We start talking, and the interaction feels about averagish. I am kinoing her waist, though, and noticing that she must have a really tiny waist, as my hand rests above her hip at an angle I never really felt before. This, on top of the fact that she looked like an older version of the first girl I ever #closed (to be entirely honest), made me eerily sexually excited by her.
She's there with a male friend she says she'd known for a while who was her driver for the night.
She makes a statement, and I say something about how no one wants an ass kisser. She asks me if I know about BDSM.
"Well, I'm not really into leather or anything like that, but I definitely need strong gender polarity in the bedroom."
"The leather and stuff is fetish. BDSM is Bondage-Domination-Sado-Masochism. I'm a Domme. I have two slaves."
I was a bit disappointed by her being a domme, as I am not really interested in being a submissive in the sexual dynamic.
"Is being a dom uncommon for a woman?"
"Nooo... not really. It's very common." She turns to her male friend, "If you were to switch your profile to sub on collarme.com, you'd get SO many e-mails from women."
And we started talking about her slaves for a bit, referring to them as punk ass bitches.
The backroom bartender shoos everyone to the front room. Just as I'm walking in, MGMT - Kids' starts playing (see OT). Haha. Some woman comments on how she loves the beat, so I feel compelled to talk to her about it for a bit.
I turn around, and HBBDSM has caught up. She says, "Oh, there you are. I was wondering where you went."
I ask her, "So. Is the dom thing permanent, or is it a sexual role you play?"
"It's a very big part of my personality."
"Oh, that's a bit disappointing. I find you very sexy, and would love to do terrible things to you. But I'm sexually aggressive in the bedroom, and it looks like we're lacking the right gender polarity."
This statement totally changed the tone of the interaction.
By this point, I'm holding her close and speaking very close into her ear.
"Oh... well I'd like that... I can switch... As long as I understand what the role is... You should take my number."
As soon as she said "switch", a switch flicked in my head and unleashed a beast. (Edit: I think this was the IT'S ON MOMENT). I just streamed a lot more sexual SOIs like "I'm going to do such awful things to you" "We're going to have soooo much fun together" while grabbing her hair tightly with one hand and roughly squeezing her ass with the other.
Grabbing her hair made her present her neck/ear to me, so I bit them. I was tempted to make out with her, but that seemed too romantic and not animal enough, so I just kept going with the pulling and biting.
This made an impression, and she asked me to take her number again. I told her "I'd like to do terrible, awful things to you tonight." She reminded me that she had to go home and was working a double shift tomorrow, so I took her number. I gave her a missed call, and she saved the number in her phone. I told her that I'd call her soon to meet up with her, so we can have fun together. She reminded me that she doesn't mess around with stuff like this, as long as she knows her role.
I roughed her up a bit more, and left after giving her ass a vicious squeeze. I could tell she was in a bit of an excited daze as I left.
When she told me she was willing to "switch", i.e. be my sub, it really unleashed something in me. I guess it was just permission to do all the rough aggressive stuff I really wanted to do to a woman. Knowing the frame was that she would be submissive to me, made me feel like anything I wanted to do was right, as long as I was a fucking man bout it. Really liberating.
My plan is just to get a hold of her tomorrow, and be very direct about having her come over for a sex meet ASAP.
Not the rebound day SNL I was looking for, but seems pretty damn close, and in some ways more exciting than even that.
I'll keep you posted guys.
I was almost in danger of goose egging the weekend.
