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A lot of the times you can give yourself the best advice, or sometimes you can just give yourself the advice that you would be looking for from other posters…If you know how to do it.
An example of how this would work, something that happened way back when-
I am an American male and am uncircumcised. I’m fine with it and in fact I am glad that I am that way. But even I was a little self conscience because I was going to be in a position where I could have sex with a Jewish girl.
I was thinking about telling her that I was uncircumcised so there wouldn’t be any surprises (partly because I thought it would be hard for me to take a freak out) So I kind of wanted to break her in so there was no surprises and if we were going to have sex she was going to have to be alright with the fact.
I imagined someone asking that question to me. Like I had nothing to do with it what so ever and the person asking me for advice was somebody else.
After I did that I thought to myself…
I was planning on telling her this information that would probably have been this kiss of death for me. Just telling a girl that would imply so much and have so many presuppositions it would scare a girl who is even DTF running faster than a rabbit gets FUCKED! Haha
REFRAME that shit: How many times is she gonna get an opportunity in her life to experience an uncircumcised guy??? I am helping her experience new things
So basically when you think of the questions you have and you want answered you do this:
Think of it being asked to you by another person, what advice would you give this person?
Most people on here are intelligent. They really have the answers to the questions they may have deep inside. When you look at them from the persepective I talked about you will finally be able to give yourself the emotionally unbiased advice you need as opposed to when you think “what should I do??” from your perspective. Turns out I came acrossed NLP techniques before I even was aware of NLP (association/disassociation)
I am typically someone who doesn’t need to go to people for advice when it comes to many situations, from general life to pickup. That doesn’t mean I have disregard for the opinions of others it just means I can typically work out my own problems by myself.
I thought to myself well I bet a lot of girls are brought up to find uncircumcised guys weird looking but at the end of the day they will probably be cool with it. But a Jewish girl NO. She would not be with a man who wasn’t circumcised. It’s like against her religion or something!!! LOL. Stupid guy logic…
I considered this for a minute…Then I considered asking for advice somewhere.
But then I did something that just gave me a WAKE UP CALL.
“WOW!!!! HOW DUMB OF AN IDEA IS THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!”
I thought to myself, fuck it.
If she has a problem with that then FUCK HER!
If she likes me/wants to fuck me…is this really gonna matter?
Or
Imagine you are reading a post on here, what advice would you give?
Especially on here if you have a good grasp on things and the way things work in reality often times your own advice is all you need.
Of course if you’re a noobie and need actual advice on things you have no clue on then that’s a different story.
DAMN IT!!! There goes my totally awesome amazing excellent discovery
LOL
