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First, I sometimes get the impression that when joining the community
people become afraid of the word "date" after reading some material..
And substitute it with "day2". But they still set it up, frame it and
act on it like it was a date... Woops!
What are the REAL differences though between a date and a day2, beyond
the words? (date-oo... sounds a lot like date? lol)
Well on a date, things are generally framed as the guy (suitor) proving
himself to the girl (prize); bad start eh? Add to that all the rules and
regulations that go with dating/courting... And it becomes almost a
battle of you (wants to get laid) vs her (wants to be courted). Yuck.
A date is also typically a meeting where an EXTEERIOR event is the main
course, such as a dinner, movie, art, etc. The focus becomes even more
removed from the dynamics between you and the woman, so much so that the
whole getting laid plan goes right out the window...
What is a day2???
Ideally, a day2 should end in a lay that's how the term got coined,
"a day2 lay" vs "a same-day lay". Things aren'T always ideal though...
So what is a day2?????????
It is a meeting, of course. But the meeting is quite different from the
typical courting game that is STACKED AGAINST YOU!
A day2 has an objective: and the objective is simple, it is to lay her,
or at the very least prime her, get her ready to get fucked shitless the
next time you meet...
As such, the focus is on you and her... And the emotions and states you
are going through. Not on the food. Not on mindless entertainment.
That's why "what to do on a day2?" is such a strange question.. Because
of course, what you should be doing on a day is.. priming her to get
laid! Figure out where she's at right now, mentally, and amp her up, get
her more comfortable, get her liking the idea of sex with you, get her
horny, what ever it is she needs to FEEL, whatever she needs to go
through mentally before getting laid..
That's what you do on a day2. That's how a day2 differs from a date. Now
you see that where you take her and what you do with her is really
inconsequential, in fact it can be detrimental! So the less you do, the
better...
And hey, if you offer her nothing but your presence, you at least know
she fuckin wants to be in your presence... While if you offer her a
romantic expensive dinner and movie, guess what, you don't know if she's
there for the free ride or for you.. Even if she's not into you, she'll
take it.
So there you have it. Do your day2s correctly from now on, and I better
not see any more of these "where do I take her?" questions...
Ok, been rereading some Maniac High and some RJ today, and I synthesized
a few ideas here.
