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For the past six months or so, I've been getting with almost every girl I sarge. Like, 80% of attempted sarges work out in some way for me (make-out or above - # closes don't count).
That doesn't mean I'm running around in the club banging 80% of women I hit on. In fact, I almost never do night game anymore.
I do low-volume, IOI-sensitive daygame. What's low volume? One, two, or three approaches per month. Doesn't seem like much, I know, but like I said, my hit ratio has been very high.
This is the right style of sarging for me right now, for a few reasons:
- I'm in a great relationship, and only sarge when I need to slake my thirst for sexual variety. Most of the time my needs are covered. No need for high-volume sarging. I just don't have the sexual motivation to run around in the club all night.
- Nothing makes my balls tingle more than getting IOI's and AI's from women. That's when I'm at my horniest. Since they liked me first, or at least reciprocated an IOI that I sent them, my horny come-on is well-received. This allows me to use my favorite frame - what I call the "rascal frame". It's a kind of mischevious charm and horniness that suits my personality well. I get the impression from his posts that NVP has a similar frame.
- I really have to be in the mood for a night of all-out, crazy-ass sarging. What I'm doing now, I can do without interrupting my normal life in any way.
Now here's some criticism of the way I've been doing thigns:
- it's lazy. Although I could easily approach more just based on the IOI's I get. I only approach the ones that literally make me pitch a tent just by exchanging flirty eye contact.
- It's advanced stuff. I've been on mASF for like two years, and I've put more work into getting good at PU than I put into my master's degree. I wasn't born with this sensitivity to IOI's, I earned it by approaching my ass off as a beginner. New guys should be approaching as much as possible to hone their game.
- It's best suited to a guy whose life is already sexually abundant, and who really isn't hung up on results.
- it's well-suited to where I live - a target-effing-rich environment. This might not fly for a guy who doesn't live in a major city with women all over the damn place.
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So, yeah. That's what I've been up to. Anyone else sarge like me? Thoughts?
Just something I'd like to throw out for the discussion of the advanced guys.
- it's extraordinarily high-intensity. When I sarge all the time, and I'm in regular practice, I can talk to a strange girl like it's nothing. When I approach infrequently, it takes every bit of my self-control and guile to pull off the sarge. It's not easy. I appear calm, but inside the engine's starting to smoke. I practically get high from the intensity, which is what I think I'm attracted to.
