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about me: I’m 25, I’ve been leaving in Portland,OR for 4 years now.
Meet: I’ve met this girl, HBstrawberry, outside of my apartment building on my way to the car. She was Asian, long white coat, high hills, long dark hair, 20yo,slim, very cute. She has been walking down the street, but suddenly turned and walked back facing me. I made fun of her going back and forth, she was looking for a street M to meet her friend. She said she is an international student from Japan, but has been living here for many years (almost no accent). I got her phone number.
Next day (Saturday- today), I called her
Date: I took a nap, and was 10min late to meet her, likely I was meeting here is 5 min away from place. She was there, dressed up nicely: Black short dress, high hills, black net stockings, and a black strawberry neckless. Her long hair and a cute face make look very hot.
She didn’t say anything of me being late, I gave her a hug (I usually do on a first date). It was raining (It rains crazy in Portland these days), I had an umbrella. She said that she forgot her umbrella, and if she can walk under my umbrella too. I was surprised she asked for it explicitly. I said that I don’t know her well enough to share my umbrella, made fun of her a bit, and we walked to the coffee shop.
We sat inside, she talked, I listened at first. I recently rediscovered for myself to listen carefully to what a girl says, be interested in it, ask relevant questions. Works great. After 10 min, I asked of what she likes in guys. I always do it, it helps me a lot later. The way I do it is: If u were to meet an ideal guy (SP) what qualities would you like to see in him (talk slow). She said she likes: a)smart guys, b)talkative, c)nice (polite and respectful). A “talkative” things was new to me, I’ve never heard a girl wanting it in a guy. After a while I performed what she wanted: I tell her a lot of fun stories of my life, told her about my research work (which is true, but I don’t usually talk about it), and how important it is to respect a women, and how most guys in the US don’t pay attention to women. She totally agrees, likes me more, we have a good raport by now.
She goes into telling me about her last boyfriend, she lived with him for 2 years and broke up 2 month ago. He wouldn’t let her hangout with any of her friends, he deleted all guys phone numbers of her phone, and he told her how much he loved her all the time (she like this part though). He was super jealous, crazy in my opinion. Funny, she seems like a very trustworthy person. She said she would never cheat in her life. I listen, agree, tell her a similar story about one of my earlier exgirlfriends.
In a mid time, I’m trying to qualify her
I play a game with her, I bet that if I win she’ll kiss me, if not I’ll buy her a coffee next time. (I like these bets, even if I loose I get the next date). She looses, I don’t go for kiss, I though may be Starbucks is not the best place for it.
I invite her to my place. It’s 5pm. She agrees, we live close to each other and from this coffee shop. At my place we have a drink, I put some slow music and light up a candle, she seems to like it. My light is on, it is very bright still. Whitney Huston “I’ll always love u” plays on my laptop, and I invite her for a slowdance, she is a clumsy dancer, we kiss then.
We sit back on the couch, kiss again, she is a decent kisser, but she doesn’t look ready for sex yet. She talks about her exboyfriend and his flaws again. Funny, the most she is missing of him now is a dog, she got very attached too. I turn the conversation into sexual route, I started from the drinking game, which relaxes her on a subject, and then asked her about her sexual fantasy:
A: So, I’ve heart in on TV program that every girl has a sexual fantasy, what is yours?
I don’t have any ropes in my place, and I’m thinking that she might freak out if I try it now. But I made a mental note, that she likes to be controlled and forced a little. I’m almost ready to undress her, just one more thing, I asked where she likes to be kissed. She says her neck is very sensitive.(very Good).
It’s about 6pm now, I said that she talks too much, lay her down and start kissing her, moving towards the neck, she resists. I’m forcing her arms to sides, eventually get a neck and she gets very excited, all moving under me. She gets on top of me, looks at me and says: “Do you realize that I just got out of long relationship?” I thought she meant, that we can’t have sex so soon, but I was wrong (later about it). I say, I understand.
I touch her breast, very big for Japanese girls, feel her slim body, and keep kissing her neck (the sensitive spot). Get her naked, get inside of her, we’re having sex. She is like a fire, moves elegantly, screams sometimes, very hot. Sits on me, moves slow, then fast, then under me, she can bend her legs very high or almost split them apart. We have sex for more then an hour, I can’t come yet. (The was a different girl a had sex this morning and last evening, but it’s a different LR). She take my dick (which is pretty dirty by now) into her mouth, and I come, she swallows, looks super excited. She says it was a great sex and she liked it a lot. I’m curious if she had any bad sexual experience with her ex. Surprisingly, she says it was good too.
We took a shower, and just hang out in my bed. I debrief her (I do it all the time recently). You’ll be surprised how much information you get:
a) She says that she is just out of relationship and is not looking for one, she wants to be just friends. She says that I should be able to understand it. Looks like a dream for a guy, I’m not still sure if she meant friends with benefits or just friends. But my intuition tells me, it wouldn’t take much to get her in bed if I need to. She says that if I can wait 6 month, she can date me. And she’s not going to see anybody in a midtime. She just doesn’t want to date now. Perfect for me, I don’t want to date anybody at all, he he. I say Sure, may be she can help me shop sometimes, she gets very excited of this idea.
b) I asked her what she liked in me. She likes me because, I looked her straight in the eyes for a long time, I really listened to her, I was polite and I seem very independent, she liked that. I look straight into eyes all the time, it is reassuring to hear how important it is. Also, recently, I got much more success with women, and all of them compliment me on knowing how to listen. I concluded that often just listening to a girl and being interested in what she is saying is much more powerful, then e.g. telling a funny story yourself.
c) Many guys approach her on a street, she gives her phone number to most of them, but rarely replies to an unknown number or calls back. If a guy leaves a voice mail she never calls back, because calling puts too much pressure, but she always texts back. (This is an interesting point, because just two days ago a girl was telling me that she calls back only after the guys voice mail, which says that he has balls, I can write about her in a different LR if anybody is interested).
d) When she meets a guys, She is attracted to a guy only if a guy didn’t show to much interest in her, but at the same time she is debating that he might be interested. With no interest in her at all, she thinks of him at most as a friend, with an interest (e.g. some compliments) she isn’t interested herself. Also, she likes casual street approach with no corny lines.
She had only 2 serious relationship in her 20yo, and 4 guys she’s been with total. She never cheated in her life, not even thought of it. She looks like she can be a good gf/wife for somebody. Thinking back about this LR, it feels like an easy lay. I don’t think it was though, she was very serious and distant at the beginning, when we met for a coffee. It even occurred to me to have a quick coffee and leave home after the first 10min, I’m glad I stayed and got to know her better.
Comment, suggestions and questions are very welcomed!
This is my very first Lay Report. Don’t judge my writing too much. I’ve laid this beautiful Japanese girl from the first date. I debriefed her afterward with some interesting new info, see at the end. But let’s start from the beginning.
HBstrawberry: Who is it?
A: This is A
HBstrawberry: (sounds very happy to hear me, good sign)
A: It’s raining crazy, Let’s have some hot coffee, 6pm
HBstrawberry: Hmm, I don’t know what my plans are today, can I call you back later if I’m free at 6?
(not a good sign,)
A: No, I need to make plans now, let’s do 4pm instead?
HB: OK
A: So how good your hugs are?
HBstrawberry: I don’t know. But I’ve been told I’m a good kisser (good sign)
A: Really? Ok, show me your hug first. (she hugs me nicely). I rate it 5.5 out of 10, she giggles
A: Now, show me your kiss..
HBstrawberry: She looks me in the eyes, there is pause for 20 sec, and she says NO and sits down.
BTW: all the time I talk to her I look her straight in the eyes, she doesn’t look away, almost challenging me constantly. (I’ll get a compliment on this later from). I kino her arm, and shoulder sometime (she sits across the table, which makes it a bit challenging)
HBstrawberry: I don’t know, I don’t have one.
A: May be a burglar graps you, you some military guy takes you, or you’re taking a shower with…
HBstrawberryK, I have one, but I’m really embarrassed, tell me yours first
A: (I’ve tried most of mines already, which are not fantasies after it’s done. I’ve not had a threesome, but I don’t feel I should mention it to her, because her ex already tried to convince her, and she hated it). So I say, that mine is about a random girl taking me to her place from a bar, and making love to me in the shower. (I was trying to improvise about something cute from women perspective).
HBstrawberry: This is sweet, but mine is a bit dirty
A: no problem, go ahead, tell me. I’ll make it easier for you. (And I turned off the light, so only a candle light remains. She thanks me, he he)
HBstrawberry: I fantasize about being restrained, hand coughed , and somebody is taking me in different positions,…
I can’t believe I’m telling it to you. Nobody knows about it, even my ex boyfriend. And it’s just a fantasy, I think I would be afraid to try it in a real life.
