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Because I am 5'7" I had to adopt the mindset that height didn't matter to women, because I saw no way I could be successful as a seducer and hold a contrary belief.
But I do get shit tested about it.
I really had a breakthrough once I realized that no woman was EVER going to TELL me that.. she can't!
If she teaches me that point then I have FAILED because the act of her teaching me implies that I am worried about the issue to begin with. If I ask her how she feels about it, same thing.
Almost every single woman I have slept with in the past three years has been taller than me. It's not that I don't find shorter women attractive, I find lots of them to be so... it's just that I find so many taller women attractive that for my whole life seemed off limits to me so I do my best to view it as completely irrelevant... if I find her sexy and I can kiss her face while standing LOL I am gonna hit on her.
I have been successful and several of these women have told me they love me and they still want to be near me even two years after the fact. I am just so grateful for how my life has changed and so I try to give every woman a great experience from start to finish, just really grateful for whatever time I have with her even if it's only one night.
I liked Rega's post in MM about make her stay. There is a time and a place to tell her what to do. My new GF just last weekend (5'10") was shit testing like she wanted to leave, but I already knew she drove 30 minutes to see me, and that if I didn't kino her she would always kino me first, etc, so I just laughed at her and looked her in the eyes and said in the most sincere voice I could find:
"Someone is clearly not spanking you enough... Within two hours I am going to be doing absolute magic to every part of you, inside and out"... and did not break eye contact or my sincere smile until her eyes went wide and she blushed and smiled... she loved it!
Of course I am a man of my word I learned from my daughter and also David Deida, that one way a man shows leadership is that the leader must always be the most conscious man in the room. That means with my daughter, she falls asleep before I do, and I make sure she is safe and the house is safe in every way. With my GF, she comes first, I put her mind and body into orbit, before I come all over her, or make her wait another day for that (much easier to do when you're 40 years old)....
I hope this has been some encouragement for the shorter guys and older guys out there... for all of you guys who came into this with limiting beliefs of some kind (aka every last one of us here)...
The deeper I get into this the more this concept of The Matrix seems real to me.
