The Top Pickup Artist Forum On The Internet: Fast Seduction 101

The Basic Rules

The 3 seconds rule – THE most important rule for Pick-up Artists.
Look and feel your best – Not rocket science, but a lot of guys need to be reminded.
Be the Alpha/Dominant male – Because when you’re not, you can only be second best.
Do my looks matter? – Yes… and no. At least not as much as you think.
Nice guys vs jerks – the key difference between the two explained.
Good traits to have – or develop, to be a successful player.
It all comes down to satisfaction – read why you actually have the upper hand with the most beautiful of women.
Women want good sex – so make sure you do her right:)
Should you express or contain your sexual desires? – a moot point, read why.
Wanna play the dating game? – … um… let’s see now…
The rules with your wingman – if you approach girls together with a friend / wingman, make sure you agree on the rules.

How to Get Started

On confidence – and getting started with approaching girls.
Experiment! – don’t think twice, don’t look back, just have fun!.
Casual meetings vs pick-ups – the pros and cons.
At a party – a mild alternative to the 3s rule.
Just say “Hi” – then continue with one of the two tactics described in the article.
Talk to girls – everywhere!
How to initiate a conversation – here’s your back-up, in case your primary parashoot doesn’t open.
Talking to her = echoing her – a stripped down version of Trance words and Eliciting values.
Fluff talk – the essential skill of talking about nothing, and how to evolve from that.
The “don’t”s of fluff talk – what to avoid.
Reading body language – its like reading people’s thoughts, it’ll blow you away:)
Mirroring – the Jedi mind tricks of body-language explained.
Kinesthetics – make touching the girls your second nature, even (and especially!:) if you just met them, they’ll love it:)

Approaching Women And Getting Them Interested

Where to meet girls – the most popular places for a pick-up.
If she seems unapproachable – then maybe everyone thinks so… and she’s all alone.
General guidelines on approaching – a few pointers and examples to get you started.
Demonstrate value and personality – the basic premise of seduction.
The importance of a first impression – or relative unimportance, depending on whether you’re an AFC or a PUA:)
Pace and lead – and demonstrate understanding to increase rapport.

Approaches

• Simple approaches – examples of various conversational approaches.
• The cold approach – not a good approach, unless you combine this with the GM style.
• The collision approach – either let her walk by… or “bump” into her:)
• The available chair approach – that empty chair next to a HB looks inviting…:)
• The crappy sketch-artist approach – because women like artists right?:)
• The dramatic approach – catch everyone’s attention… including her’s:)
• The cellular approach – to choose any topic of discussion.
• The familiar approach – act like you already know her, or fool her into thinking she knows you:)
• Pez opener – a really “sweet” opener by Mystery:)
• You look stunning approach – Ross Jeffries’ classic, careful though, not intended for use with the 9s and 10s:)
• Pacing the ongoing reality – a simple way to get instant rapport.
• Should I buy her a drink? – read why you’d better avoid it.
• Should I ask for her name? – so that you’d know what name to yell when you’re sleeping with your hand?:)
• Leech off someone else’s crash and burn – anything is fair in love and war:)
• If she is working – a waitress, a nurse, a girl at the cashier – this one is universal.
• If you just have to use a pick-up line – they suck, unless you show you know they suck.
• “I like…” game as an opener – you can use this one anywhere.
• Mr Smooth technique – the game-show host style technique of a Japanese PUA explained step by step.
• The questions game – a shortcut to sex-talk and kissing.

Gimmicks

• Use a gimmick to get going – handwriting analysis, tarot cards, palmistry – “crap” you say?:)
• Palm-reading – why should you use it? –
• Reading the lines in general – a do-it-yourself guide to becoming a gypsy:)
• Reading the line of Fate – yes please:)
• Reading her love-life – uuuhh… sounds interesting:)
• Reading the line of Heart – good, good:)
• Reading the mount of Venus – oh no… where is that?!:)
• A sample reading routine – a few examples to give you the general idea.

Club/dancing

• Night-clubs vs other places to meet girls – a few words of warning.
• How to switch to the right mindset – set yourself apart from “death row”.
• Asking for a dance – just honour the traditions. If you want to get nowhere:).
• About dancing – unless you have the skills of a back-up dancer, don’t waste your energy.
• Slow dancing – an exception to the “don’t waste your energy rule” above:)
• Fast dance to slow dance – a superiour technique of transitioning to a slow-dance no matter the music:)
• After the dance – now that you’ve got her, don’t let her slip away.

Group Techniques

• If she is with a friend – or even worse, a group of friends? How do you approach?
• Approaching a group of many girls – a simpler strategy for approaching groups.
• How to have her leave the group – a passive strategy… but still pretty good:)

“Neg Hits”

• Neghits explained – Mystery shows you what gets you the attention of the most beautiful girls.
• Neghits expansion pack – some additional advice on using neghits and a few examples.

Eliciting Values

• Eliciting values explained – become the man of her dreams, just by talking to her:)
• Trance words explained – say it in her own words (also relates to Patterning).
• Calibrate the girl – and you can read her like an open book.
• Eliciting values – introducing the questions – how to ask the questions without sounding obtrusive.
• Eliciting values – the questions – so what questions should you ask?
• Eliciting values – the answers – now that you know her values, it is time to talk about “yourself”:)
• The perfect relationship – a simple value-eliciting scheme.

“GM” Style

• GM style explained – I bet you won’t believe that this actually works:) Well, it does:)
• GM style lines – completely outrageous!:)
• GM style expansion pack – a continuation of the GM style, links to appropriate articles.

Sex Talk

• Talking about sex – a few words of warning.
• Use sexual stories to get her horny – can you get away with it? Or, can she get away… without a wet spot in her pants:)
• The Ideal Guy routine – no matter her interest for you, use this to get her horny (and be around when that happens:).

Patterning

• Patterning explained – the essence of Ross Jeffries’ Speed Seduction^».
• Delivering patterns – general rules – the most important aspects.
• Delivering patterns – tonality – the right way to do it.

More Patterning Skills

• -> Trance words explained – say it in her own words (also relates to Eliciting values).
• Anchoring explained – the Pavlov’s reflex of seduction:)
• Quoting and stacking realities – you can get away with anything using this (also relates to “Sexual talk”:)
• Time distortion – how to make a girl you just met feel like you’ve been friends forever:)
• Bullshit fantasies – a powerful application of time distortion (relates to Time distortion).
• Thought binding – an excellent article by Ross Jeffries.
• Submodalities – an explanation plus an excercise in removing hesitation.
• Read romance novels to enrich your patterning language – the cause justifies the means:)
• Common misconceptions and problems with patterning – and how to overcome them.

The Patterns

• Introducing patterns into a discussion – without sounding unnatural. Also how to approach.
• Discovery Channel pattern – “the ride goes up and down and once you get off, you want to come again and again”:)
• Stone Necklace pattern – tell her a breathless/speechless-making story:)
• The Trust pattern – alleviate her most common fears.
• The Rose patterns – and she’ll be obsessed with you:) 3 patterns.
• Believing the Supernatural patterns – “destinies”, “higher beings”, “chi energies”; feed her with her favourite food:)
• Passion to Passion pattern – shift her passion from “something” to “someone”.
• Mental Screen pattern – “close eyes, imagine great feelings, open eyes, see… me?:)”
• Peak Experience pattern – exchange peak experiences with her.
• Natural Woman pattern – show her you know the secret and natural side of her.
• Meeting the Perfect Man pattern – and she’ll feel what its like… in your presence:)
• Feeling Drawn patterns – descriptions of initial attraction plus examples of using vague language. 4 patterns.
• Incredible Connection patterns – the classic and its various derivatives. 12 patterns.
• Falling in Love patterns – make her feel the feeling of falling in love:) 7 patterns.
• The Dream pattern – help a girl have dreams about you.
• Being Similar pattern – and she’ll feel what you feel (a growing boner?:).
• “Too bad we don’t… but if we could…” pattern – you can describe almost any state you want to her with this one:)
• Find Your Desire pattern – and turn good girls into “naughty”:).
• Sex is Natural pattern – you’re adults, you can talk intelligently about sex… right:)?
• “The more… the more..” pattern – a simple yet powerful application of thought binding.
• Reading the Poem pattern – transition from patterning to reciting poetry.
• The Eyes patterns – what better topic to talk about than her eyes. 2 patterns.
• I Want You pattern – transition from patterning to kissing:)
• At Least We Can Be Friends pattern – LJBF her into tearing your clothes off on the spot:)
• Indifference to Attraction patterns – convert her from friend to lover:) 3 patterns.
• Find That Girl pattern – reinstate her faith in men.
• Blow Job patterns – these are supposed to make her want to… well, you figure it out:) 2 patterns.
• Backdoor Pleasure patterns – the funniest patterns ever:) Read and you’ll know why:) 3 patterns.
• The Void pattern – the contrast of feeling empty versus feeling happy and fulfilled..
• The Door pattern – a pattern so evil, that even Ross Jeffries has denounced this one.
• The Solution pattern – help her make up her mind, the way you want.
• Presuppositions and other “mind-tricks” – don’t leave her any choice:)

Remote Seduction

• Become your own “friend” – to put in a good word with her:)
• Patterning over the phone – sounds lucrative… but is it worth it?
• Nick-name tease – isn’t a woman’s curiosity a wonderful thing:)?

You’ve Got Her Interested…Now What?

Common signs of interest – to know you’re “in”:)
Building a bridge AFC-style – if you can’t do anything, do it at least the AFC way:)
If more than one girl is interested in you – don’t choose, you might loose:)
Reading the signs of a “committed” woman – understand her seemingly contradictory signs, and the door will be open:)
Capitalise – there’s a girl that has started liking you quite on her own!? Now don’t let that window close:)
Making a timely exit – instead on lingering on forever, leave her hungry for more.
Closing – how to get a girl to give you her number and a kiss:)
Asking for a… date? – now that you have her number… what next?
Proceeding instead of closing – for why would you want to “close” if things are going smooth?
Our World routine – constructing a world for her in which she will feel free to make love to you:)
Inviting the girl over to your place – to “check out a book or something…”:)
If she has second-thoughts – she wants it but can’t quite make up her mind, “help” her:)
My home is my love-nest – make sure you can be confident^» about the quality of your retreat.
Networking and pivots – if you’re not quite interested anymore or she’s not quite interested yet.

How to Handle Girls

Be busy – attract girls by being “busy”.
Suggest competition – keep her on her toes.
Put a price on yourself – the more you “cost”, the more value she attributes to you.
Show a willingness to walk away – don’t let her take you for granted.
Use her friends – by realising, that “friendship” also means “rivalry”.
Judge her by her actions, not by her words – or rather, let her actions speak the words.
Have and reveal secrets – provide a constant thrill for the woman.
Use poetry – women are about feelings; poems are about feelings – and mixing the two gets you dynamite:) 12 poems.
If she compliments you – make her feel good for having done that:)
Act like its special – and what you have can not be found anywhere else.
Paying her a compliment – an AFC trap, unless you do it right.
Cook for her and “date” at home – the main dish will be less expensive and the “dessert” more convenient:)
When should you call a woman after having sex with her? – don’t blow it, she’ll be very sensitive and tender about this one.
Romantic gifts and things to do – but use these to reward, not to bribe.
Managing many relationships at once – best policy is (tailored:) honesty.

Troubleshooting

If she asks for YOUR number instead – don’t fall for this (relates to Closing).
If she still refuses to give you her number – a strategy of covert persistence.
If she says “Why do you ask?” – read how to recover (relates to Patterning and Eliciting values).
If she asks “Are you trying to seduce me?” – this isn’t trouble actually (she likes it:), but you still need to know how to answer.
“Have you ever…?” gets busted – what do you do, if she says “No” in response (relates to Patterning).
Ejecting – you don’t always have to close. Know when to cut your losses.
If she cancels a date – she screwed you (and not the way you hoped she would:). Now what?
If she doesn’t return your phone-calls/e-mails – a zero-tolerance policy.
If she shows disrespect for you – How to deal with (dump) her and why.
The age difference problem – you shouldn’t anticipate it, but its good to be prepared.
Nothing works with the girl – and you tried all your techniques. But there’s an ace up your sleeve:)
If she says “Let’s just be friends” – looks like you’re in trouble, read how to recover.
Dealing with rejection – why you should never get rejected and how to cope with it, if you do.
But I really want this girl! – read why this is such a self-defeating attitude.

The Boyfriend Problem

• If she says she has a boyfriend – never prompt for it, but if she says it anyway, don’t just bail yet.
• Alienating the boyfriend in her mind – from “Sweep women off their feet”. Sayanora borefriends!
• Boyfriend-smashing techniques – by NYC. Adios borefriends!
• -> Boyfriend destroyer patterns – Hasta la vista borefriends! 6 patterns.

Micellaneous

Fun and games – you’ll love these:) “The kissing bet”, “Osama”, “A-Hole + truth or dare”.
Bad jokes – careful:) “Pants in the air”, “Telepathic watch”, “Spermogram”, “Doctor’s appointment”, “Voodoo dildo” etc.
A game of Crash and Burn – guess it depends on your definition of fun:) But a great experience (and confidence?:) builder.
More things to do for fun – useless, but fun:)
Top colognes – for getting the girls, of course.
Miscellaneous suggestions and observations about seduction – a recap.

Related Articles

The Iranian from hell – do your looks matter? Read this report by Maniac High and decide for yourself:)
Eye contact experiment – David Shade finds out, how girls react to eye-contact with a stranger.
The pivot theory – NYC explains the benefits of making girls your pivots.
Ross comments on www.introme.com – his one-page website / personals ad full of NLP and SS.
Falling in love vs being a player – in case you have any feelings of guilt.
A female seducer turning straight girls into bi and lesbian – if you’re a girl reading “How to Lay Girls”, this one’s for you:)
Article in Rolling Stone – a tour of modern seduction literature, NLP and Speed Seduction^».
Article in Playboy – the Harvard-educated journalist experiences a paradigm shift.
-> Job Interview patterns – a different perspective on NLP and patterning. 2 patterns.

-> More articles…

Field/Outing Reports

The rich and famous setup – but even more accurately the “tired of female attention” setup:)
The effectiveness of persistence with a smile – true seduction (choose and seduce:), not a numbers game or easy girls.
Svengali’s street pick-up – a classic street pick-up using humour, romance, sex-talk and kino with confidence.
Svengali’s friend’s street pick-up – a “neg” of sorts gets the ball rolling:)
The original Mr Smooth posts – Maniac High describes the technique of a Japanese PUA.
NightShadow’s IRC seduction – an example of an image to create good feelings.
David Shade’s online seduction – this guy is really good:) A log of him and a married woman.
David Shade’s real-life seduction – and he’s not just a computer geek cowering behind his keyboard:) Read and gasp:)
David Shade’s “The Kiss” post – amazing stuff
Maniac High’s report, NYC’s comments – important points being discussed.
The Orgasmotron – Alex Akselrod plants a post-hypnotic suggestion.